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Recent content by Izzdan

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    Separated from wife for a month now.

    *Update* I've lost hope, I've been trying non stop. I've given her the space she wanted. My anger towards the situation has depleted. I invited her to counseling a few weeks ago, she told me to go by myself and let her know how they are and she will go with me next time. That next time has come...
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    Separated from wife for a month now.

    This is where we stand, we talked tonight. She told me she was happy being single. But she said she'll go to counseling with me. But mostly mentioned what do we do if we get divorced. She talked about wanting things from the house like we were done. So I don't understand the wanting to go to...
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    Separated from wife for a month now.

    She's all over the place, contacts me then doesn't. I'm going with the No Contact Rule. I've stayed off all Social Media for the past few days. She called me tonight and told me something about who's watching our child tomorrow but I already knew the answer so I feel like she's noticed I haven't...
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    Separated from wife for a month now.

    Well tonight she texted me, started up a random conversation but would always take 10+ minutes to reply. She asked me a question, I answered but never replied in a timely manner. I'm assuming that's on purpose so she don't think that I think she's trying to be nice or interested. But why just...
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    Separated from wife for a month now.

    It was something else you wanted to do when we were together. But never did. Yeah i'm not trying to put on the charm but you may be right. Trying to win her back with hopeless requests is what i'm doing and it's hard to resist sometimes.
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    Separated from wife for a month now.

    Well I asked her if she wanted to out on her next day off. Invited her to the Planetarium and she didn't even reply. She will answer my other texts but the ones where I invite her out she just ignores.
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    Separated from wife for a month now.

    Thanks everyone it's a lot of information to take in from everyone. I asked her if she would like to try counseling to see if we can figure things out. She said not right now. She wanted to do some pottery place while we were married but we never did. Would it be wise to take her to that now? Or...
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    Separated from wife for a month now.

    Should I wait and not go and ask her out on a date tomorrow? We've only been separated a month. She said she needed some space so I feel like the near future would not be a good time to ask and allow her the space that she wanted. This is hard guys, not try to ramble in my posts. Feel like there...
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    Separated from wife for a month now.

    I'm afraid of rejection that she'll say "no" Then what?
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    Separated from wife for a month now.

    Thank you for the advice, I will add that I did 99% of the cooking in the house, I changed the litter box 100% of the time I went grocery shopping majority of the time and I didn't clean around the house much but I did take out the trash 100% of the time. I did contribute a lot. I went to...
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    Separated from wife for a month now.

    I feel like she has given up and I'm not sure what to do. I don't feel like anything I could say now would change her mind. I'm not very religious but I do believe that marriage is sacred. I know the most important thing right now that we have is our child and I just hate it how he jumps around...
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    Separated from wife for a month now.

    Me and my wife have been separated now for a month after 4 years of marriage and we have a 17 month old together. We went out to dinner today and talked about our future. She told me what her main concerns were. That we have nothing in common as far as hobbies and interests go. She also thinks...
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    Wife Moved out 5 days ago

    We both don't really follow any religion. I did put agnostic but i'm open to religion. I don't shun on it. I do have an appt tomorrow with a Christian Counselor. Hoping she comes with me if not I'll go alone to work on myself. Will definitely take your advice "Hidden In Him" Trying to give her...
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    Wife Moved out 5 days ago

    She moved out 5 days ago, told me before she moved out that she wanted to date again, then a day after moving out said we should just break up. Then the next day told me she wanted to try again. Back and forth, I suggested marriage counseling and she hasn't agreed yet but she hasn't said no. I...