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    A few questions about Love (also relationship-related OCD)

    Umm I also have a problem with Signs. I sometimes ask God to give me a sign, but because of my OCD, I seem to only notice the "bad" signs. For example, last year during a flu epidemic I was afraid of my boyfriend getting sick and I prayed to God to provide him with protection. I also asked Him...
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    A few questions about Love (also relationship-related OCD)

    How do I learn to do that?? I just have this huge fear that I will fall in love with someone else... And I don't want to... Because I really love my boyfriend and I feel good with him. I also read a few articles saying that we will always be attracted to other people even if we are happy with...
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    A few questions about Love (also relationship-related OCD)

    Ok, there is still one thing that confuses me. I keep getting thoughts about another guy. I don't know him in person, but he's a friend of my boyfriend and my bf told me about him and I also saw some pictures of him and read a few of his posts in a forum, and I thought that he seems interesting...
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    A few questions about Love (also relationship-related OCD)

    Thank you for comforting me. I think you're right. I hope that my anxiety concerning him has something to do with the fact that I have been going through some intense sexual OCD lately. I'm a little sad because until now I felt some emotions towards him almost always, and now it's just as if...
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    A few questions about Love (also relationship-related OCD)

    I'm having another concern. He's quite older than me. Not in the age where he could be my father, but still older. And I thought to myself, what if I only fell in love with him because I'm having some sort of daddy issues due to my lack of self confidence? I sort of always liked older guys more...
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    A few questions about Love (also relationship-related OCD)

    Thank you for your answers! Mirly, it is indeed an interesting coincidence :) I know that I should treat these thoughts like any other OCD thought, but it is still very hard for me to accept the thoughts because I still keep thinking that if I accept them, they will become true. I think it's my...
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    A few questions about Love (also relationship-related OCD)

    Hello. I would like to ask the Christian community a few questions about love and relationships. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. I love him very much, although we've been through a lot of difficulties as well, but in the end, we always knew that we want to be together. But this...
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    I am obsessed by the thought that my boyfriend might be dangerous

    Umm, I don't know how to put this. The situation has flipped again. I'm now over the phase where I thought he was dangerous to me and that I'm too good for him and now I'm in the phase where I think I am the one who is dangerous to him. I now realise how much patience he needs with me. Whenever...
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    I am obsessed by the thought that my boyfriend might be dangerous

    No, no, it wasn't physical. :) There was just a really complicated situation, but eventually we solved it. His behaviour at that time was not very nice, but I realize he was under stress as well. Afterwards he understood what he had made mistakes, and was really sorry about how he behaved. He...
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    I am obsessed by the thought that my boyfriend might be dangerous

    Thank you for your replies. Yes, I have OCD. And also I am aware of my ROCD. My obsessions swing from thinking that he's not good enough for me to I'm not good enough for him to these type of worries. At times everything seems to be just perfect and I feel deeply in love with him, but then...
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    I am obsessed by the thought that my boyfriend might be dangerous

    Hello everyone, I am new here. So far I have been seeking help in OCD forums, but now I found this Christian OCD forum and I'm really happy about it because I'm trying to be Christian (I said trying because I just recently got interested in religion and there are still many things I don't know...
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