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Recent content by iHarken

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    Not With Superiority of Speech

    “For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise.” ‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭10‬:‭12‬ ‭KJV‬‬ Do not compare your gifts with Paul or feel inadequate...
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    Hierarchy in truths censored

    God alone is truth; sin is anything that contradicts God. Why separate the truth into four parts? There is only one truth because there is only one God. “Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God is one LORD:” ‭‭Deuteronomy‬ ‭6‬:‭4‬ ‭KJV‬‬ “Sanctify them through thy truth: thy word is truth.” ‭‭John‬...
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    ‘Is Trump Leading Me Back to Jesus?’—Why Joshua Harris Is Thinking About Jesus Again

    The Lord has given you the wisdom to help brother; his symptoms are the same regardless of the root. “But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and this defiles a person.” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭15‬:‭18‬ ‭ESV‬‬
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    Judgement (not Gods but human judgement of others)

    For any Christian that believes you cannot cast judgement, I have a simple question, is that what the Bible says? “Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.” ‭‭John‬ ‭7‬:‭24 Has he not shown me what is good? If I can’t think for myself & discern what’s right from...
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    ‘Is Trump Leading Me Back to Jesus?’—Why Joshua Harris Is Thinking About Jesus Again

    “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?” ‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭17‬:‭9‬ ‭KJV‬‬ It sounds like his faith is subject to the winds of his feelings. We cannot make decisions based off our emotions; they will betray us. They are but reflections of our heart; our...
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    What is the name of the redeemer of the fatherless ?

    Let me ask you this. If Jesus walked the Earth today, spoke to you in parables like he did then, would you believe? Most of us would like to say yes but faith is a fickle discipline. The Lord visits you in a way that shapes you, not in way that satisfies your curiosity. Chances are he’s already...
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    What is the name of the redeemer of the fatherless ?

    TLDR: this Proverb is a warning for the reader; fear the Lord. “Speak not in the ears of a fool: For he will despise the wisdom of thy words. Remove not the old landmark; And enter not into the fields of the fatherless: For their redeemer is mighty; He shall plead their cause with thee.”...
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    Ethics on lies and how to tell other Christians that they are supporting liars.

    “Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ,” ‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭4‬:‭15‬ ‭ESV‬‬ Stop making excuses brother; love doesn’t guarantee people won’t get defensive. Here is what matters: is there defensive posture a result of truth or pride...
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    Ethics on lies and how to tell other Christians that they are supporting liars.

    “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” ‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭4‬:‭32‬ ‭ESV‬‬ Grace is not an option, it is a requirement. Grace is given at all times, lest you limit the grace you want to receive. But unrepentance changes the dynamic of your...
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    ! LOVE JESUS AND JEWS!

    You do not base your love off circumstance or feeling. Love is virtue; something to be practiced. This includes Jews, Gentiles, & everyone under the sun. “And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.” ‭‭Colossians‬ ‭3‬:‭14‬ ‭ESV‬‬
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    Ethics on lies and how to tell other Christians that they are supporting liars.

    Firstly, this is not an issue of ethics but of morality. There is no such thing as an “innocent white lie”, either something is the truth or it is not. If something is not the truth, it is a lie. “Keep your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking deceit.” ‭‭Psalm‬ ‭34‬:‭13‬ ‭ESV‬‬...