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Recent content by Ifonly

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    A choice, going to hell or saving lives?

    It's not something the police here could easily help out with. Believe me on this one. It's to do with an arranged marrage and the family of the women involved. I care about her dearly and because we have been together before marage (no sex though) her father and his brothers who are publicly...
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    A choice, going to hell or saving lives?

    But isn't changing my faith (if I do that I can't lie about it, so I'd have to do it seriously) a serious sin? It's a really complicated situation that isn't easily explained.
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    A choice, going to hell or saving lives?

    Ok, I'll make it a bit more clear to you. It ivolves converting to another faith. An extremist father and his brothers want to punish some people I know for something they are inocent of. If I do this, I could save them, and as I was never the most religious person, I could honestly do it. If I...
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    A choice, going to hell or saving lives?

    For reaons I can't go into here, I won't specify how this thread relates to my life. That's a rather private matter. Anyhow, If you had the choice between saving several peoples lives, and ensuring their lives had the potential of being really happy ones, but going to hell for committing a Sin...
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    What happens to Jews, Hindu's, Animals et all?

    Obvoiusly I was being somewhat sarcastic in my last post to point out some Ironies.
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    What happens to Jews, Hindu's, Animals et all?

    So in other words all the Jews in the Hollocost, Gandi and every otehr person who was not a Catholic as in not Babtized and not believing in Jesus, went to hell and Burns eternally. They are being punished. Every Nazi that killed the Jews and all the KKK who killed people, that happened to be...
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    What happens to Jews, Hindu's, Animals et all?

    So in other words if a person has lived an isolated life and was unable to discover christinanity, or a person was really good but was a hindu (like Gandi) they go to hell anyway? Doesn't that sound unfair?
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    Help, I found out my son is gay!

    I saw that some of you said that the older guy should be ratted on, for having sex with a minor. You might of noticed that the guy said he lived in the uk, and there it's legal to have sex with 16 year olds, so there ain't nothing he can do about it.
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    What happens to Jews, Hindu's, Animals et all?

    Ok, the reason I'm asking is, I spent the first 1/3 of my life brought up by very religious Catholic parents who tought me that animals and Jews (and other people of other religions) and Homosexuals have no soul and will be cast down into hell when they die. They told me that the people of other...