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Recent content by ichthusKF

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    Well, I guess you've heard by now that my DH has decided to divorce me. It was his decision to go. He feels that I am too controlling and demanding. I forgave him long ago as did my family. He just seems to refuse to see that. Also, according to a woman he's been speaking to on myspace...
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    Hi Jenniewren-- thank you so much for your continued support. Unfortunately my fears were confirmed last night. DH was just not in the mood for anything. I know he's going through a lot with his Grandad (in fact when he found out about his death the first thing I did was tell him to come over...
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    Jenniewren- Thank you for your kind words and encouragement. I actually looked at a definition you had of forgiveness in a previous post. Under that definition I do forgive my DH. I certainly have not forgotten nor do I trust him much. It seems when I start to trust him he does...
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    Hello all. It's been a while since I've posted and I have come here for your take on a few issues. Things with DH have gone up and down over the last few weeks. Last night though, some of the things he was saying were quite troubling to me. The most troubling though, was that he did not care...
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    Thank you Cristianna and Jenniewren, I have a very good support system. A Christian counselor I have been going to since April, my family is very supportive and forgiving my DH is certainly something that will take time but they have told me in the future they could see this happening...that and...
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    I'm not going to be as nice to you as everyone else is. I'm going to tell it to you like it is. And then I'm going to be done with this soap opera because I have my own life and problems to attend to. It shows poor form for you to follow your estranged husband around the internet. Yes, you may...
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    Thank you Cory and Free for your words. He really does need everyone's love and support and I'm glad he's found a place here. I do hope I don't chase him away. I am supporting him the best I can, but I too have emotional wounds I have to deal with including nightmares about past incidents...
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    Thank you for explaining...I did find that many of your posts were somewhat distrusting of women. I wanted to also add...now that I've re-read my post he actually had our daughter in his right arm and hit me with his left. That may have caused some confusion. And I wanted to add that I...
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    Well...I have decided to give these forums another chance...though now that I'm here I doubt my DH will come anymore. But that's not why I'm here...I'm not here to scare him away...but more to level the story so that if you decide to give one or both of us advice you know both sides...as the...
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    well...I just found this place now...I had seen it on my husband's PC before this incident happened (when he was at Mass I noticed the site I go to Mass on Saturday night because it works out better for our daughter's sleeping patterns...the middle of Sunday Mass is usually her nap time so it's...