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Recent content by ianjones

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    Wants to Rid of my Homosexuality

    I agree. You're not alone. My entry was exactly the same as yours. I am so sorry that you have gone down that path. It is lonely and dark and very painful. I would say to keep praying, keep fighting temptation, and always try your hardest, with everything that is within you to not look at...
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    Struggling with homosexuality

    Thank you Jacob. Your posts are very kind. I think I might email you. I don't know how these other guys are dealing with their feelings, but for me I'm in a lot of pain. Lonliness and struggling with these desires is driving me insane. I once thought I had it all under control, but lately...
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    I don't know how open I want to be about this but....

    I just joined, so it looks like I won't be able to PM you until I have 15 posts.
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    I don't know how open I want to be about this but....

    I responded to you in another post. I will also message you.
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    Struggling with homosexuality

    Lordworshipper, your post makes me super sad. Mainly because I feel your pain. I know where you're coming from. I, myself, am an extremely sensitive guy. Probably why a lot of people think I may be gay. I would like to encourage you to look to the Lord as a God who loves His children. Why...
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    Struggling with homosexuality

    Dear Danny, As I write this my heart bleeds for you. I am almost in tears as I write this, because I am in the same boat as you. I, too, struggle with homosexual feelings, and sometimes even give in to gay porn (coupled with touching yourself) to satisfy my "need". I am always sad, even when I...