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Recent content by Ianh

  1. Ianh

    My divorced minister is trying to date me

    Yup. That's prob best, or u'll have half the church gossiping.
  2. Ianh

    Are Skinny Jeans / Leggings / Tight Fitting Pants Modest?

    I have heard the comments guys make about a good looking girl in a bikini. What do u think God would think of a bikini? If it makes some men lust then its wrong. Period.
  3. Ianh

    My divorced minister is trying to date me

    I dont know... Its a difficult one.... I suppose most of the comments here r right, it prob isnt right. Same old story - if in doubt leave well alone. But how does a pastor go about getting another wife? Should he even have another wife? Matthew says if a divorced person remarries they r...
  4. Ianh

    Are Skinny Jeans / Leggings / Tight Fitting Pants Modest?

    They didnt. U dont understand. If u showed people in the 1800 s a pic of a girl in a bikini and said this is what girls will wear they'd be shocked. U need to fight for what u believe in. Dont put ur head in the ground like an ostrich and pretend everyrhings hunky dory and ok - it isnt. God...
  5. Ianh

    Are Skinny Jeans / Leggings / Tight Fitting Pants Modest?

    Exactly. The fashion moguls of this world are mostly ungodly people. What the world says is ok is not ok with God. We've been subject to one of satans greatest tools - gradualism. We r conned /brainwashed into accepting the ways if the world. Remember, God says i never change. So if a bikini...
  6. Ianh

    Are Skinny Jeans / Leggings / Tight Fitting Pants Modest?

    I've been a guy for 54 years. My while life i have seen and heard how males look and talk in a de-meaning sexist way about an attractive girl wearing tight clothing. If girls dress in way that makes guys talk and lust then its wrong. Like i said i have heard how guys speak about girls when they...