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Recent content by HumbleBoy

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    Cheating Wife Wants Me To Raise Her Son

    Hi HappyHope; Thank you for your answer. Here's a quick update regarding 'her son'. He IS MY son! And him and I have been spending much quality time together and will continue to do so, since her infidelity. I had a heart to heart talk to him about the situation and he made it absolutely...
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    Married couples telling singles to never marry

    My take on this as I am going through a divorce right now from a cheating wife after having been married 16 years. Do get married, absolutely. It is most wonderful and a blessing beyond measure. BUT, and this is a big one; be willing to work on and for your marriage to keep it strong, make it...
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    Cheating Wife Wants Me To Raise Her Son

    To all who were so kind to take the time to respond to my request for feedback: From the bottom of my heart THANK YOU for your insights and supports. Discovering that the one you loved with all your heart and devoted all your time to, can so easily toss you aside like a worthless, used-up...
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    Cheating Wife Wants Me To Raise Her Son

    Hi Albion; Most definitely I would miss him tremendously. That's why I am not turning my back on him; not now, not ever. I haven't had any contact with her and intend to keep it that way. Thank you for your response. It is much appreciated.
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    Cheating Wife Wants Me To Raise Her Son

    Dear HannahT; Thank you for the insight. You are right; I most definitely feel deeply hurt and very confused, including a whole array of other emotions because of her actions. I have had a heart to heart, open and honest talk with my son and we mutually agreed we most definitely want to...
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    Cheating Wife Wants Me To Raise Her Son

    Thanks Sabertooth; Absolutely 100% agree with you there.
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    Cheating Wife Wants Me To Raise Her Son

    Hi Michie; Thanks for your response. I do understand your point of view. I already mentioned in a prior reply that I have no intentions of cutting myself away from my stepson's life. I just wanted some clarification as to what her intend was with her pleading. I feel like she wants me in...
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    Cheating Wife Wants Me To Raise Her Son

    Thanks HannahT for the response. I tend to agree, except had she not chosen this affair this would never have been a concern in the first place. She chose and decided to be with another man while being married, knowing full well what the consequences of her deceit would be. I actually have...
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    Cheating Wife Wants Me To Raise Her Son

    Hi everyone; looking for feedback. Married 16 yrs. Wife has son (19 yrs old now) with another man. This guy was never in the boys life, not physically nor financially. I raised him since he was a toddler. Wife is having an affair. I got proof 2 months ago. Confronted her about it. She...