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Recent content by HR_19

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    Prayer for Patience

    Thank you. I am remembering the parable of the persistent widow and petitioning God daily for my desire, but also remembering Jesus' prayer, "My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will." God's will just be first and greatest desire, with...
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    Prayer for Patience

    On November 1st this year, my wife told me she wants out (read: a divorce). She served me the actual papers on Thanksgiving (I knew she filed the day before, so not that big of a deal). Without going into much detail, please just know that we were essentially both equally rotten spouses for...
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    So this is why I'm here...

    BrendaaH, welcome to the forums. I'm sorry you're not here under happier circumstances. On November 1st this year, just a little over 5 weeks ago, my wife told me she wants to leave. By now, she has filed and served me divorce papers. I have until 12/22 to decide if I want to file an actual...