• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

Recent content by Hesper

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    Why I Don't Like Homosexuals

    I'm very sorry to hear you had some bad experiences with gay men, however not every gay man is going to do that to you. It's like having a bad experience with someone who is another color - are all blacks/hispanics/etc violent? Should you get defensive in the presence of all black men, in fear...
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    the THANK YOU thread

    Lord, you heard all of this before, but...one more time won't hurt. =) Thank you for.. - Calling out to my mom to return to You - Graciously forgiving us undeserving sinners - The sense of order and justice in a chaotic, sinful world - Providing hope, strength, and guidance to people around the...
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    What was your dream job when you were younger?

    Either an engineer or an astronomer. I remember, as a kid, calling a scientific-related store asking for a price on 3' long (diameter) lenses to put together my own telescope. That obviously didn't go anywhere lol
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    Unwanted "friends" in our lives?

    Weird, I was in a similar situation recently.. This person has done some hurtful things, and while he didn't try to end the friendship, he did back off quite a bit. My friends told me to just kick the person out of my life, yet blocking the person made me feel guilty and confused. I think...