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Recent content by helpneedednow

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    Bipolar Make's Me Slow/Dumb or Fast/Smart

    i am a rapid cycler that can change in an hour or a day. with my meds i am pretty stable with just minor mood swings. it is a great help to me to be on the highs you are talking about because i also feel like i can conquer the world. the other days it is hard to even step out of bed and my...
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    Living w/ Bipolar

    cant your parents help you with meds? i would get on meds as soon as possible because it sounds like you are on a rollercoaster ride. i know before i took medication i was a total wreck. if i went through life like that it would not be worth living. get help through a doctor, therapist, and try...
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    Not Christian, just delusional?

    i dont know what to tell you but i have found the lord in my life and it is the best feeling you could have. i have gone through so much this past year and a half i cant tell you. i just wish i could have caught things sooner with this illness so i could have saved my family, my freindships, and...
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    I'm so tired of this battle

    i have had those same thoughts in the pastand i have seemed to overcome them. i still have my spells when i think the whole world is against me but those are slowly getting further and further apart. i am trying to go back to work now, let you know how that goes, but the point is you have to...
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    Wishing not to be me!

    i have ben there and i really know how you feel. to this day i have those thoughts, why me? all i know is im here ( almost wasnt due to my stupidity) and i have to challenge myself eveeryday to just do small things. i know i want to work and be productive but sometimes i wonder if i can do it. i...
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    working, is it a reality with bi-polar?

    thank you so much, i am very new to this, diagnosed in may and im just trying to feel my way through and get some feedback and help with my questions. i want to work, be stable, and get back to a semi-normal life. god has blessed me with people who want to help me and i would like to help...
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    working, is it a reality with bi-polar?

    i really have certain doubts about being able to work fulltime as i have heard the many stories about the stresses and failures due to them. i have heard everything from satan being in your mind and causing indecision to meds that totally make you into a vegtable. i know i have been slowed by...
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    New to Forum, not Diagnosis

    welcome and may god bless you also. we all have been through long journies with our illnesses. dont feel alone, we are here with you.
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    My Girlfriend, Alcohol Drinking And Bi-polar

    you need to look into aa and see if you can attend with her to help her get started. second, she must make the choice to actually quit drinking, if she cannot then you must let her go. she will hit the bottom eventually and then she will come seeking help, and you will be able to help her if...
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    Struggling with Diagnosis

    i have also found this to be true trish, i have just met an autistis little boy. i find myself really wanting to help him and can relate to his situation. the only difference between you and me is i also stutter so i know how mean and ruthless people can be. how you can get thrown to the side...
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    Do not want to tease

    i would write if it helps you. expressing yourself is the best medicine and whether it is all good or bad, it doesnt matter. maybe you will help someone else with their problems or they will be encouraged to write. you may save a life which would be the most beneficial thing you could...
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    Struggling with Diagnosis

    i know i have prayed to god to help me through this illness. i have read in the bible that you should ask for things in prayer and that was opposite of what i thought you should do. it says that god will help you even if it is not what you think you need but what you want. i am convinced that...
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    For those who are hurting badly!

    i really can relate to you and knowing the lord. god has helped me more than any medicine or doctor ever could. not saying that they dont help because without them i would not be here but i know god has guided me to them. please understand that i have many issues still remaining but god will...
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    I'm relapsing... and I knew it...please...pray...

    you will be in my prayers tomorrow in church, may god bless you as i too went through thethoughts of death, please get help, maybe annonimously. may god bless you and your child.
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    sticking with the new life

    ty so much, i need all i can get, trying real hard to be the person i know i can be.