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Recent content by hannahchick

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    How often should we see eachother?

    Hi! I'm seeing a young man and we both want to honour God in our relationship. We've been getting to know eachother for about 4 months and been an item for about 2. We really like spending time together and he seems pretty keen to see me everyday. I have been trying to keep it at most every...
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    Assignment due in 18 hours & I'm stuck

    Hi all, I'm in my final semester of my 3 year uni course. And its 2:30pm and my assignment is due tomorrow at 9am. I don't know how I'm going to get it done. I feel really discouraged. I've been working so hard this week, trying to get this and another assignment done but I still feel like...
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    Help with friends please!

    Thank you Parsley and Mytel. I really appreciate you're input and sharing your experiences. Parsley, I see what you mean about people having their own issues in their life that takes their time and attention, and yeah doing youth group is already a significant investment. My human response is...
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    Help with friends please!

    Hi there, I just wanted to write this because I'm feeling discouraged and disheartened about my friends and want to get some fresh opinions. So I'm a youth leader at my church (have been for the last 2 years). Dynamics are always changing because leaders come and go. Youth group is on every...
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    Dating a new Christian

    Hi blackjellybean. I just finished watching the sermon. It was great! Full of Biblical principles. I've been reading a lot about this subject but I found this sermon to really tie it all together well. Thanks :)
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    Dating a new Christian

    Hi all! So I thought I'd give you an update on our situation with more requests for wisdom. We started hanging out more over the last 3 weeks and all came to a head last Monday when he asked me out (he even got my parents blessing for asking me out). After talking to him a lot on Monday, I...
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    Road trip, is it ok for guys to sleep in same room as girls?

    Hi all, Here is an update for everyone. Who went: us girls and the guy (I'll call him Bill). We slept in the same camper van but at night we put up a couple of towels to make the girls bed area private. the guy slept in the above bed area. We were all very modest and my friend and I made a...
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    Dating a new Christian

    Hi, I have met a guy who grew up in a Christian home and says he was a Christian when he was younger then rebelled for a few years. He basically said he didn't live as a Christian and lived a life full of sin. He gave his life to God "a few months" ago and from talking to him, it seems he has...
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    What song are you listening to right now #2

    The Stand - Hillsong
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    Road trip, is it ok for guys to sleep in same room as girls?

    We are all against sex before marriage and would be accountable to each other so from my perspective definitely not.
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    Forum make-up: Marital Status

    Single and happy to be. Not that I don't want to marry someday. I've been investigating the pros and cons of single vs married life. If you ask me, both singles and marrieds have a lot going for them. I sometimes think society places too much emphasis on the need to be married. I think its good...
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    Road trip, is it ok for guys to sleep in same room as girls?

    Hi, I plan to take a road trip with 2 guys friends, a girl friend and myself. We are all 20 years plus in age. We want to take a camper van and we have the option to all sleep in the same camper van. If we did, us girls would be very modest, have separate beds of course and wear normal clothes...
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    "Dating" help please

    Hi, I've moved to a new town and have been going to a new church. I've settled into the group of Christian youths. I'm a born again Christian and I really want to be obedient to God. I've taken an interest in another Christian guy who's 24 years old this year (6 years older than me). I've been...
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    New Chrisitan - Needs Help -- God

    Its pretty important that you accept the Bible as truth. It is a strong foundation for salvation.