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Recent content by handheldoutlaw

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    I'm not sure..

    Thank you so much for the responses. I am sorry for the late reply, I only had my phone and this site is difficult to visit on my phone because of all the advertisements. I'm working on getting my head sorted out. Holidays are especially difficult for me, and I'm especially anxious now as...
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    Having flashbacks and terror

    Hey honey. I'm sorry to hear that you are struggling, I hope everything turns out okay and that the number is changed soon. I am praying.
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    I'm not sure..

    Thank you all. I truly feel inadequate,less God's child because I am hurting. I cant rationalize it.
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    I'm not sure..

    Thank you so much all. <3 All of your responses have literally brought me to tears. I am getting help. I have family&friends looking over me and making sure I'm safe. I've never felt so cared about. Thank you for your prayers, it truly means so much, and if any of you ever need anything let...
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    I'm not sure..

    Thank you so much for your response. I am currently in therapy and taking medication for the PTSD. She is a Christian, and a truly wonderful lady. I am also receiving a lot of support from my church. :) I am really struggling and triggered at the moment. I feel as if I'm falling back into a...
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    I'm not sure..

    Hello everyone. My name is Lauren. I am 17 years old ans I struggle with PTSD. I was sexually abused by my dad for years, all in 'the name of the Lord'. I am confused about all this. I know God didn't tell him to...God would never do anything like that. It still hurt me for a very long time...