Recent content by HamoNinja

Welcome hope you enjoy and you are encouraged during your time here

Hmmm interesting topic... and some good advice stated here.... I too at one time was caught in my own infatuation many years ago when I was in my 20s thinking that I would one day meet 'The One'... yet in my naivety I learnt a sobering lesson... that this is idea of being partnered up with the...

Hi Jacob I'll keep this brief as there are some really good points and advice given to you already in this thread... esp from @forlovingHim and @Rawtheran So coming from a current 42 year old-single male (once upon a time I was where you are)... and in hindsight... sensing your fears, your...

Hmmm just to put something straight for some of the brothers here (and sisters in the same boat)... but being an introvert has “nothing” to do with being unable to speak with the opposite sex or quiet type... This is a misconception big time... being an introvert is about energy which comes from...

Hmmm I’m just wondering from one-single guy to another (and trust me I’ve been where you are and I’m now in my early 40s).... What’s your focus? Why are you so caught up with the status quo and even isolating yourself in the ‘single-zone’? Having a gf or not having a gf or getting married or...

Thank you again for more insight into your journey... Abuse no matter how it comes by or by whom is not ok, ever! Unfortunately family is the most common place where the worst kind of pain stems from (and that the devil uses to steal, kill and destroy the family unit and the individual family...

Dear sister @derpytia I am almost hesitant to post a response on your thread, because of how you may respond or take what I have to say... but here goes anyway... Firstly, you are 100% on all aspects of what you have shared here so far... especially when 'no' means no! No arguments there...

Dear @straightcurvylines Firstly, thanks for sharing... very brave of you to be open about such things in your life... Secondly, can I ask why have you posed this question or where does this line of questioning for yourself stem from? Thirdly, some great feedback in this thread (and not so...

Hey brother Antari... At the end of the day, with everything that you have had to endure and gone through health wise... being a fellow 'single' male now at 42 going on 43 this year... I too had the idealistic concept that I would be married before I hit 25, so much for that idea lol But for...

@Mark_CB curious, but what is that you are actually looking for? So far from what I have read, everyone is encouraging you to take in the Word from one perspective or another, but at the end of the day, what are you seeking here? More understanding of who our Lord is? History lesson? Knowledge...