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Recent content by GutterRat

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    This is my 10,000th Post

    Hi Red! :)
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    Oops......yeah....forgot to bite my tongue!

    ......what's the problem?
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    Harry Potter? Be careful folks!

    I gots a great idea - instead of arguing over petty little books, among other things, ....why don't we, oh I dunno, go out and feed the hungry? Maybe - help those in need? how about that? Why don't we discuss that stuff? Oh, I know why - because getting upset over a book, boycotting, and...
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    Christian voters

    Wait, wait, wait, wait - wasn't the the point of voting for Bush? Look how that turned out!?! Christians need to stop voting for the guy who says, "I'm a christian - vote for me!" and start actually looking into the issues and the person. ya know, the african-american community, for the...
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    George Bush?

    I'd like to see that - couldn't find anything on my initial search. But....it doesn't shock me at all. I voted for the guy - but don't think much of him anymore.
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    Toy Guns

    Lock n' Load son! Lock n' Load!
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    If your spouse went to prison for life...

    Agreed - no brainer. :thumbsup:
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    Harry Potter? Be careful folks!

    I fail to see the difference between HP & LOTR's. And I fail to understand why christians will put down HP - but lift up the praise of LOTR? I don't get it? while Tolkien was a catholic - LOTR has just as much magic in it as HP - and is much "darker" IMHO. Later, GR
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    'sex day' to boost births

    Incase ya missed it - Link I guess I gotta go support my Russian peeps...**GR goes to find Mrs. GR** ;)
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    Does marriage involve two people, or two families?

    Our situation was kinda similar. My wife was close with her brother - but her and her mom really got into fights a lot. She had the same attitude - after the wedding - we are gone. And so we did. We moved almost 1000 miles away & stayed away for just over a year. It was great for us & for...
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    Harry Potter? Be careful folks!

    I worry more about the 700 club than I do Harry Potter.
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    Should people get legally married?

    Men need to "man up" and stop being such wimps! Get married! Walk down the isle!! Go ahead, think of every reason possible - but it boils down to it - you don't have the "guts" to do it. If you can't marry the woman you love - then break it off with the woman so she can go find a real man.
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    Can someone answer this?

    Don't even want to think about it. If I lost my wife.........no, don't want to think about it.
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    Does God have a sense of humor?

    You haven't seen my brother!!! If you had...you'd know God has a sense of humor!!! :)
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    Spanking your kids

    Why can't people get it through their thick heads that SPANKING DOES NOT EQUAL BEATING!!!!! If a child is beaten then YES IT IS WRONG! If a child is given a spanking in the correct manner there is nothing wrong with it! **GR puts on blind fold & lights cigarette** Shoot when ready!