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Recent content by gsluvsu

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    Another lonely marriage and feeling hopeless...

    My husband just called to tell me he is going out after work with friends for drinks and basketball. He worked late Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday night. Came home at 6:00 last night, but went upstairs to watch basketball and fell asleep and now this. I just don't understand why he doesn't want...
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    I don't think I love him anymore...

    Two years ago my husband admitted to an affair with his very young secretary. I was devestated but decided to make it work. He was resistant at first, but after much crisis counseling he decided to stay with me. As far as I know, he has given up the girl, the pornography and drinking. But, he...
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    Marriage Heading for Divorce?

    My husband of 13 years cheated on me with his very young secretary about 1 1/2 ago. He says he cheated on me because I did not give him enough sex. I am the mother of two young boys, on medication for depression and basically his slave. I truly was just too tired each day to have much time for...
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    How long do I stay in this marriage?

    We have spent thousands of dollars on Christian Counseling and he now refuses to go.
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    How long do I stay in this marriage?

    My husband of 12 years had and affair with his young secretary for two years. I found out about a year ago and decided to try to save the marriage. I felt like it would be best for us and the children if we stayed together. We have been seeing a Chritian Counselor. He and I both are devout...