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Recent content by go72

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    Wife had affair for seven years, Kids 6 and 5

    DNH, I know what you're describing, I have had that problem too (my wife had an affair, but nothing as bad as what you've been through). I talked with my friends about this ongoing anger and resentment I feel, and whether that means I've truly forgiven them or not. Their advice, which I think...
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    Wife had affair for seven years, Kids 6 and 5

    Have just read through this thread and was feeling more and more positive for you, until I got to your last post. I'm so sorry. I wanted to say that I understand some of the emotions you are going through. I found out 6 weeks ago that my wife had an affair, and I can identify with all of your...
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    Online dating question

    savedbygracebre, I am in a similar situation as you, recently separated. There is no reconciliation on the cards because my wife still has feelings for the man she had an affair with, and isn't willing to completely cut all contact with him. But I have a different view about whether you can...
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    No More Mr Nice Guy

    Thanks lwg8tr for the suggestion, this sounds exactly like what I need. My marriage is teetering on collapse and my wife has not much desire and respect for me anymore - and your post is similar to something my friend mentioned to me recently... because I have not shown leadership in my marriage...
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    Migraine

    I am 40 years old and have also suffered from migraines all my adult life. Unfortunately I have not been very wise and I have just swallowed some codeine tablets each time and soldiered on. But I found that I was needing more and more tablets each time, not to mention the long term risks of...
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    Losing Control

    Great one Contrar! So good to hear!
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    Losing Control

    Hey Contrar, sorry to hear you are going through these problems. In response to your last post, I guess there are no set rules about how to handle these situations, as each situation is different. At the end of the day, if you feel you need to avoid this particular guy, then that may be what you...
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    Marriage and insecurity

    Thank you everyone for your prayers. Stephanie, yes I've been trying all those things for years, but she's not responsive. Moreover, I don't receive anything like that in return, she simply has no excitement or joy about being with me anymore. I feel very lonely. Thank you all for your prayers.
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    Marriage and insecurity

    Would love prayer for the following two issues: 1. After being married for around 20 years, my wife says that although she still loves me, she has very little romantic/physical love for me anymore. I try as often as possible to tell her I love her and constantly do what i can to love her, and...