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Recent content by GNJ

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    Look at what this sheriff had to say...

    Now how about we talk about the huge percentages of children in foster care since birth because no one will adopt them? How about we talk about how a huge percentage of those children are not white? How about we talk about all the anti-abortionists who fight for the rights of these unborn...
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    "My death needs to mean something."

    Transgender teenager, 17, leaves heartbreaking suicide note blaming her Christian parents before walking in front of tractor trailer on highway Apologies if this has already been posted and I missed it while skimming the forum. Absolutely heartbreaking news. Her voice needs to be heard...
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    A Burger Joint Pays $15 An Hour. And, Yes, It's Making Money

    Most of these businesses could pay their employees a decent rate if they wanted to, this isn't news (especially major chains like McDonald's - my cousin in Australia is nineteen and making $20 an hour - I think that's set to hit $24 when he turns 21). They just don't for their own benefit...
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    What should you do if someone challenges you to a fight?

    Walking away is always the right option if you have the option. I don't know much about fights though. I've only been punched once for no real reason, and I apologized automatically which confused him enough to defuse the situation.
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    Mall Santa turns away autistic girl and her pit bull service dog

    Awful. I understand if the Santa has a serious phobia, but I do not understand why he would still refuse once the dog was removed. He obviously should never have been a Santa to begin with. Also, Pupcakes is one of the best dog names I've ever heard. Abcde might also be the worst human...
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    Cleveland police shoot dead 12-year-old boy holding fake 'airsoft' gun

    When this first happened, I refused to make any sort of comment about it other than it was a tragedy. I didn't know what this kid looked like, what went down before he was shot, what was said in the 911 call, nothing. Now that I have heard the call, seen the kid and the video I'm just.. Blown...
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    CDC: Circumcision Benefits Outweigh Risks

    The benefits of circumcision have been hummed and hawed over by medical experts for decades. I think the general consensus is that almost all of them can also be achieved through good hygiene. Of course in some cases circumcision is the best and/or only option. But personally I don't think...
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    On "sexual objectification"

    Why do I keep opening and reading threads that I know are going to be disgustingly anti-women and are just going to make me feel like throwing up on everything? I must be some sort of [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse].
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    Ferguson Grand jury decision

    This whole thing makes me feel sick.
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    Child Rapist Executed

    That's true. But this is a bad idea.
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    The Marriage Pledge

    What are they complaining about? Civil marriage and Christian marriage are already separate.
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    Child Rapist Executed

    He was only 21 at the time of his arrest. Seriously, what leads a young man to do such a thing? Very troubling. And then it took them 22 years to actually execute him? Not that I have any sympathy whatsoever for this guy. But I can't believe the death penalty is still legal in some places in...
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    Abortion and Down's Syndrome

    I've also noticed that Dawkins seems to be turning into more and more of a dbag every year. But this is tricky. I did some volunteer work for this charity for kids/teenagers with disabilities - many with Down's syndrome. And it was fantastic, they seem so genuinely happy, it's contagious. I'm...
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    Youth Pastor Catches Great White Shark!

    I am absolutely disgusted by fishing but that's kind of cool. And horrifying. Mostly horrifying.
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    Would you support gay couples?

    Definitely both. I'm a size queen.