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Recent content by gingerurp

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    Friends with Cancer

    I have a couple of friends who have cancer. For one, things look bad. I have been praying for them, but not sure how to ask if they are believers or not. One is angry at God and wondering if she's being punished. How do I know if God wants me to tell them about Jesus so that they can be...
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    I need help to stop smoking.

    Okay, here's how I quit. I ate bags and bags of sweet tarts. You know the ones that come out around Easter and Valentine's. There's something about the citrus that curbs the desire for cigarettes. Yes, I ended up with some cavities, but haven't smoked in almost 11 years. You can get them in...
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    Desperate help at school

    Can you talk to your parents? If not, is there another adult you can talk with, maybe a teacher, relative? High school can be so confusing. Sounds like you may be a little depressed, which can be common in the teen years. There's so much going on it becomes overwhelming. Don't give up...
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    Stress Management

    My advice is to find a gym that offers boxing. Take out your frustrations on the heavy bag. It's great exercise as well as a terrific stress reliever.
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    need help losing weight!

    For someone your age, see your doctor. Ask what is a healthy weight for you. You are still growing and need nutrients. Can your parents help? Just don't lose the weight too fast. If your doc okays it, Weight Watchers teaches healthy eating. Good luck.
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    Should Dallas Principals Be Required to Learn Spanish?

    Great post Ginny! You are exactly right. People coming here should assimilate into our culture and language. The principals should not be forced to learn Spanish. I think it sends the wrong message. Parents need to learn English if they come here with their children. All the immigrants...
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    Slim Fast

    I did Slim Fast after baby #1. It took a long time but worked. It was hard to live on the meal bars. After baby #2 I joined Weight Watchers and loved it! I could eat a variety of foods. I learned portion control. The meetings were so helpful. They also suggest healthy living like exercise...
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    new here

    I am mom to 2 boys. Been on and off to church my whole life. This site seems fun.