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Recent content by gillerto

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    How important are looks to you?

    I agree that often personality can heavily influence your opinion on their looks but I think its different for every person. I also think that society today is obsessed with looks and its refreshing and good to be concentrating more on personalities. Adam
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    Engaged. But thinking about another guy often.

    I think that you shouldnt get married until you have sorted this out in your mind although that doesnt mean breaking off the engagement. Because you are not in a relationship with this other bloke you are seeing things with him in a different light, think what you thought of your fiance before...
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    Someone bought my G/F a diamond necklace

    Hi everyone, I think that it is totally out of order him buying you the necklace HOWEVER i think you need to be careful. Its clear that both of you are concerned about it and therefore there is no problems about you being worried that your gf might go off with this bloke so that isnt an issue...
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    I need help or i may drive myself crazy

    please dont give up hope, give it some time and talk lots. It sounds like you have found someone really special and although it doesnt seem like it at the moment remember all relationships go throught bad patches and your will seem worse because you have never had one before! oh and one more...
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    Jealousy

    thanks for your advice. We do talk seriously about it and she realises that its not because i am being unfaithful / unfair on her, i remind her all the time about how much i love her and stuff.
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    Jealousy

    Hi guys, I’m having a little problem and was wondering if anyone else has been (or is) in the same situation or has any helpful advice. I’m in a long-term relationship (we've been going out over 18 months) and we hope to get married in a few years when the time is right but often she gets...
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    Ghana Mission

    Hi guys, just to let you know my SO left for Ghana today on a mission trip for 2 and a half weeks, she is doing various thing such as aids awareness and running a camp. I’m a bit anxious because I don’t know if she has arrived safely or anything cause she cant contact me so prayers for both of...
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    Relationship Advice

    thanks everyone. Someone asked about why parents are a problem. Basically her parents are very protective and although they are Christians would be very much against us getting married at less than about 23.
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    Relationship Advice

    Hiya everyone. I was just wondering what you all thought about my current situation. Im 17 and Ive been going out with a fantastic girl for almost 18 months and its going great, we had our ups and downs but never been remotly close to breaking up and the downs are few and the ups are many! We...
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    Girlfriend wants sex - how to deal

    As far as i can see this is fairly simple. If you really love her and she really loves you and you both love Jesus you should be prepared to wait forever for sex. She should also respect your opinion. Dont dump her tho like some people are saying, you've been going out for ages, work it out...
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    What to wear?

    thank you for your advice. I dont think im being controlling, thats really why i havent mentioned it much. I really care about her, thanks again.
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    What to wear?

    Hi everyone, I have been going out with a fantastic girl for 15 months we are both Christian and have not had any sexual activity or stuff like that but ive got a small problem. I am always slightly uneasy when she is wearing a skirt that is quite short. My question is, is it me being...
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    How far?

    Just out of interest everyone, how can you be so sure when you are married. People divorce all the time now.
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    How far?

    thank you all for your comments they have helped me a lot.
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    How far?

    hi everyone, I've got an issue that I'm not sure about and was wondering everyone else opinions. I'm 17 years old and have been going out with a girl for over a year (she is also 17) and we are both committed Christians. We feel that we are never going to split up and we would love to get...