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Recent content by Gigaquad

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    Wife packing on pounds - how to address?

    To reiterate, he didn't say he didn't LOVE her, he said he wasn't attracted to her physically and he was worried about her health. 5'2" and 120 is pretty pudgy in anyone's book unless she's a weighlifter.
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    The marriage bed- is there a wrong way to make it?

    I understand. Hopefully once you find a soulmate you'll be willing to give to him regardless of your personal feelings. Sometimes it's not about you, it's about the one you're with and making them happy or making them feel loved on a deep level. The good news (and it is good news) is that the...
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    The marriage bed- is there a wrong way to make it?

    I'm going to politely disagree with your friend then. I understand sodomy and the associated biblical ban (not to mention disease, mess, and disgust) but oral sex is not banned in the bible. Again, I wish you luck. You may find a man that isn't interested. If it's meant to be, it'll happen.
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    The marriage bed- is there a wrong way to make it?

    Alot of women and men feel the same way about oral sex as you do now until they have tried it. It's not about you at that point, it's about your husband/wife. You're doing it for them, not for you. And there's nothing in the bible against it. It's just another way for you to show how much you...
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    Old church needing work, how to effectively inspire help?

    Our church was poorly designed for drainage and it's really causing problems with water and mold in the walls. We've patched it up as best we can but we really need to get our flat-roof guttering rebuilt. Quotes from professionals are running into the $50,000 range including a french drain to...
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    Wife packing on pounds - how to address?

    You guys are all on him, but he married a thin girl because that's what he found attractive. At 5' 2" she is quite a bit heavier (height plays a big factor here) and he's not attracted anymore. That's normal. Instead of of attacking him why not offer solutions other than "Suck it up, she's...
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    The marriage bed- is there a wrong way to make it?

    For us we stick with a few fancy clothes. For me, when my wife puts on a nice dress that's all I really need to get my thoughts to more intimate realms. For her, she likes me dressed in a suit and commanding a room, from something as simple as leading a prayer over dinner at a restaurant to...
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    Why Do Christians Worship Marriage?

    Beat me to it lol. Getting married is a GREAT thing if you find the right woman. If you find the wrong one and force it, that can work too but it's definitely not as good. There's nothing depressing about it at all from that standpoint. Is it because you have negative experiences with...
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    Wife packing on pounds - how to address?

    [TLDR] She won't change for you, but you can suggest your way slowly to a more physically desirable wife. Wow, this thread has a lot of attacks. Assuming this is a real guy with a real problem, I think he deserves at least an attempt at real help. First, realize that your wife won't change...