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Recent content by ganlynde

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    I Planned to Save Myself For Marriage, But Messed Up

    Thank you everyone who's responded. You've given me hope and I'm a little more at ease about this situation. My boyfriend is now on the road working, so I haven't seen him for a while and probably won't see him again for a long time- which is really the best thing that could happen. But, why...
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    I Planned to Save Myself For Marriage, But Messed Up

    So far you're the only helpful person, so thank you very much! I didn't mean to imply that i'd made any grand announcements to anyone that I was waiting until marriage to have sex. If someone asked, i'd say I was a virgin by choice, obviously my friends and I have talked about it, and my...
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    I Planned to Save Myself For Marriage, But Messed Up

    As long as I can remember knowing about sex, I'd planned to save myself for marriage. I believe it's what God intended, I believe it's the safest thing, I believe it would make a great wedding present to my future husband, and I believe my family would be devistated and angry if I failed to...
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    How can I help my 9 year old daughter?

    I've lived in a foster home for 9 years and have seen many cases like your daughter. There is only so much love, hugs, and understanding can do against chemical imbalance and mental illness. She needs counseling. Without it, her condition could easily escalate to a place where it is much harder...
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    How you keep your hands busy

    nights are the worst... especially after a long day. And knitting seems to be very popular. Perhaps I should take it up. I've always wanted to learn anyway. =p
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    this was the worst bit of it ever (SI)

    If my parents found out, I'm pretty sure they would both die of shock. But anyway, I don't know what to tell you... the advice above seems really good, so I say, go with that. =]
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    i may as well get it over with

    Hey Moriah. It seems to me that you need attention more than anything. I'm guessing you believe your parents don't give you enough, and you probably think they care about your sister more than you. You mentioned something a few pages back about an event that might have happened with your...
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    Models and Photography.

    I am just wondering if there are any models on this site? Also, are there any photographers who work with models doing fashion/glamour/print/etc.? This is purely out of curiosity =P I do some freelance modeling and photography, but nothing serious (or profitable -_-; ) Just looking to connect.
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    "Christian" Pediatrician refuses to treat a child due to her parents appearance

    Exactly. Some people miss the WHOLE point of Christianity. That is so sad...
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    Pro-Sex

    I know what you mean, I'd much rather one of us know what's going on. But that has a down side too. What if the other person/people he's slept with, he had a better time with than me? He'd always be thinking of how much better it was with the other woman, and how (if we were married) he would be...
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    One of My Youth Girls

    The cause of my eating disorder was because I craved attention, so you and the youth minister showing an interest is probably a very good thing.