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Recent content by FrustratedMan

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    Please pray for me!

    Thank you again. I appreciate your suggestions. When she decides to talk to me I will definitely suggest the counselling. Family members and friends would not be appropriate. Not sure whether that will put her back in her slump but will try.
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    Please pray for me!

    Thank you look4hope. I guess in many subconscious ways, I was aware of her mental fragility because when she first arrived in the UK I almost killed myself minimising the risk of her being home sick and or depressed. we had the plan that she would take time to adjust and then work. But...
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    Please pray for me!

    Thank you.
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    Please pray for me!

    Thank you.
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    Please pray for me!

    Thank you so much. Yes, you are right. I was hoping to try to connect with her today; I bought an Indian takeaway for us all but she declined to eat and went out instead.
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    Please pray for me!

    I agree with you. she is hard headed and will definitely cut off her nose the spite her own face. She gets very entrenched and refuses to give in. I always concede because I’m mindful of what the children would otherwise hear and see. I think she is well aware that I will do anything to prevent...
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    Please pray for me!

    Yes, of course I’ve enabled her to become who she is but there are reasons for that. Most of the reasons relate to my children and the others relate to me hoping that things will improve if I try to be the best I can be for her as a husband and father, in spite of her behaviour.
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    Please pray for me!

    If and when she talks to me again, I’ll suggest that but doubt she’ll listen. I’m tired of constantly trying to placate her by making her hot drinks, taking her food to her, etc. I get nothing back. Sometimes, she interacts with the children when she is in her normal mood but it almost seems...
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    Please pray for me!

    She would definitely not go. She stopped going to church with us over 18 months ago.
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    Please pray for me!

    My wife and I have 2 children; a 12 year old and a 10 year old. My problem is that whenever my wife gets upset, which can be unpredictable and often, she ignores me and the children completely, for weeks. She locks herself in the room and ignores me completely, and the children most of the...