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Recent content by Frocus

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    Unwanted Blaphmous thoughts

    Hey, I'm going through something similar as well. A lot of times, if not all, now when I'm reading the bible, praying, or anything that has to do with God, names like bezelbulb or satan or unwanted images like pentagrams appear in my head. I tell satan to go away but a couple second latter...
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    Forgetting pornographic images.

    I finally quit masturbating after a long time, praise God, but I still keep having pornographic images from the past popping up in my head. I'm praying for me to forget about them but If there are others ways to I would like to do that along with prayer. If there is nothing, then I would like...
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    Praying O.C.D.

    Speaking of that, I made up a prayer that I say at least twice daily. It's made up of all the things that I normally pray so I don't have to constantly remember them.
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    Praying O.C.D.

    For some reason I have a problem with praying. If I think about praying or it just randomly pops into my head I have to do it no matter what I'm doing. For instance when I'm in band and we're in the middle of a song I'll still have to do it. Normally I'll think or mouth " Oh my lord and savior...
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    I disagree with my friends lifestyle help!

    If your interested in still being friends with her then I think you should calmly and gently tell her about your beliefs and ask her to respect yours. If she doesn't or your're not really interested in being friends with her then you should still be kind to her, like if she talks to you talk...
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    Been attracted to guys since 5th grade. Need help.

    Thank you everyone for your advice, but I am having different feelings about homosexuality so I would like to have this thread deleted. Again thank you everyone for helping me in my time of need.
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    If you lie to get something should you throw it away?

    Just to clarify, my parents are alright with me playing M rated games as long ass it's just violence, and a little bit of swearing (though even I hate the swearing. If it says anything other than the "minor" curse words as in the d,a, and h word then I don't want to fool with it). Also what I'm...
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    If you lie to get something should you throw it away?

    So I got skyrim and oblivion off of steam. Since the game is rated M you have to enter the birth date restriction thing and if your under 18 I think, it won't let you onto the page. Now me wanting the game decides to put the date to over 18. Now this was before I was really really serious...
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    Guns of Icarus

    Hey I was just wondering if anyone has played this game. What did you like about it? What did you not like? Would you recommend it? Thanks
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    The Only.

    Okay so I just came back from a mission trip with my youth group and of course me being the only black person there. I've always been the only black guy in almost everything I do. I'm in all Honors classes and two CP and where I live a lot of black people aren't in the classes (as in 0-1) and...
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    Being saved = an easy ticket to heaven?

    Thank you all for your advice. The reason why I ask this question is because I'm just wondering if I were do die but didn't ask for forgiveness (like I know this is an exaggeration but say I was stabbed in the heart/head or shot in the head) would I still be able to go to heaven. In hindsight...
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    Being saved = an easy ticket to heaven?

    No. I forget who I heard it from but I know I heard it from someone if that was what your are asking.
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    Being saved = an easy ticket to heaven?

    I remember for a long time ago that someone said as long as you were saved your automatically let into heaven. As in no matter what you do (sin or try to be the best Christian you can possibly be) you get into heaven. Is that true?
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    Been attracted to guys since 5th grade. Need help.

    I'd like this thread to be closed.
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    Do your religious beliefs effect HOW you play games?

    There really needs to be a somewhat button on here. Anyways, It influences on what games I play more than how I play them. But my answer is yes. On games I will not have anything to do with demons or summoning them. (Though I don't think on skyrim that daedra are demons but just evil and/or...