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Recent content by frets2005

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    okay.

    Probably the reason for your anxiety is the OCD, they usually go hand in hand. I think the problem is that you are trying to stop the thought. I know this is a scary concept, but you don't need to. Because of your OCD, these aren't your thoughts, they are alter-ego thoughts, thoughts that are...
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    okay.

    I have been where you are, believe me you are not alone, I have been terrified that I have committed the unpardonable sin. But Jesus knows ALL things, he knows your heart, he is not a machine, that you have to put all the right codes in then He loves you, if you get one wrong, you're toast...
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    Irrational Fears

    Sometimes I have these same feelings, of irrational fears, or catastophic thoughts. I've been through this for a long time, and I don't try to stop them, because I realize that God knows that I don't want them. However there are days that I have terrible times as well. I try to pray, "Father...
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    medication

    I've been on meds since 1994, and they gave me my life back. Don't ever feel bad about needing them, and if you need them, take them, they can work wonders.
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    okay.

    Caty, May the Lord Christ Bless you and may you realize that you are held tenderly in His hand. I have been sufferering from OCD for about 44 years now, and I feel your pain. Many times my prayers have been simply "Jesus hold me" or "I believe, help me overcome my unbelief" I have just...