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Recent content by Fremdin

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    Dealing with suicide.

    My best friend's brother killed himself 3 years ago. I didnt know what to do so I did all I could think of; I stood by her. I didn't do anything, I didn't say anything, I was just there and ready if she needed me. Sometimes that's all you can do, just be there.
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    What If His People Prayed? (4)

    My surgery went really well and my recovery has been going great. Thanks for all the prayers. I don't think I'd be doing as good without them.
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    What If His People Prayed? (4)

    Well, it was cancer. I'm having a full hysterectomy Thursday. I'm scared and I'm heartbroken over it. Please pray the surgery goes well and I come out of it ok. I have a huge tumor on one of my ovaries so its going to be a big incision. I feel like I'm being punished for avoiding the doctor for...
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    What If His People Prayed? (4)

    I'm getting the results of a biopsy back tomorrow. Please pray that it isn't cancer
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    the eels appreciation thread

    eels - Climbing to the Moon (Electro-Shock Blues) - YouTube
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    Do you like your job?

    I got a new position at work and I really like it. It's great to finally feel like I'm doing something useful and something I'm good at.
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    IJWTS Thread (56)

    IJWTS- I'd really like some cake
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    This type of girl

    Why do you say him being rich probably had something to do with it?
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    This type of girl

    I don't know. May her boyfriend of many years wasn't meeting her needs. I don't feel like theres enough details to judge in this situation. Maybe it isn't because the new guy was rich or a prep (whatever that means) but maybe they had more things in common or a shared drive. I wouldn't fault...
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    Has it ever occurred to anybody that not everybody's brain works that way?

    I believe it occurred to Howard Gardner in 1983
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    a year in review

    2012 was a hard year for me. At the end of 2011 my mom was diagnosed with terminal cancer. I had to come to grips with that and work on improving our relationship. Her and I had never been close, and I had thought that we never would be. But I realized that in holding on to my hurt and anger...
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    New Years Resolutions

    1. Lose weight 2. Take mandolin lessons 3. Focus on being happy with my life
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    The World Hasn't Ended

    But it is snowing here. And that's kind of the end of the world according to how much bread is left at the store
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    creative people...

    I generally try and listen to something I can ignore or else I think that the emotions of the music will start to taint what I'm trying to create. Sometimes I like to listen to a talkshow or the news when I'm working, but mostly I pick mellow music for the background.