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Recent content by fraggable

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    Chivalry is Dead! And I know who killed it....

    Exactly. They exist but are rare, and most of the time women won't give nice guys enough time to see that side of them.
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    Chivalry is Dead! And I know who killed it....

    You didn't answer the question.
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    Chivalry is Dead! And I know who killed it....

    They normally go together. How many nice guys do you know who are bold and come across as mature and strong, compared to how many you know who are nice and don't stand up for much? I'm betting a lot more of the latter.
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    Chivalry is Dead! And I know who killed it....

    All summed up in one well-known concept - 'the nice guy never gets the girl'. Because the nice guy never has or appears to have a backbone.
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    LDR's and - the other side?

    A while ago I posted a thread here saying why dating didn't work for me, what it boiled down to is that in person, first impression, I guess I'm just not appealing to girls. I can think of a couple reasons this may be - I'm 5' 11", less than 150lbs, maybe a little geeky (but proud of it, it...
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    Can you be a Christian and be gay?

    But the definition of a Christian is NOT 'saved person'. It's: 'Christ-like'. That's the real meaning of the word, not a definition made up by someone. Meaning that of course someone who is saved can sin, and a Christian can sin, but is less Christ-like for the sinning.
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    Can you be a Christian and be gay?

    Do yourself a favor and don't pull the 'The Bible doesn't say that specifically' card here. You want to enforce these rules?: DEUTERONOMY 22:13-21 If it is discovered that a bride is not a virgin, the Bible demands that she be executed by stoning immediately. DEUTERONOMY 22:22 If a married...
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    Can you be a Christian and be gay?

    Christian = following the teachings or manifesting the qualities or spirit of Jesus Christ Gay /= Christ-like. If you say otherwise you are seriously fooling yourself for some reason.
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    Long-distance relationships

    Best left to the desperate huh. 23 yrs old, 3 dates total, and no prospects. Sound desperate?
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    Long-distance relationships

    I have a personal reason for making this thread, but really I want people to post random thoughts on long-distance relationships and what they think about the subject in general because I'm not sure what I think and I want to hear some opinions. There's a girl I know who lives 6.5 hours away...
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    Virginity

    Not a deal breaker at all, of course I'd prefer marrying a virgin, being one myself, but thinking of the girls I know well who I'd marry in a heartbeat with the opportunity, that wouldn't even factor into the decision in the smallest way. I'll tell you what would factor into it: their attitude...
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    Why dating doesn't work for me

    Let me give you a little background: I'm 22, almost 23. I was homeschooled with my brother, we had field trips and social events with homeschool groups, I'm a quiet guy but get along with anyone just fine. I am not an extrovert by any means, but not an introvert either. Just speak my mind and...
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    I know it's out there, but... say you want to take a vacation with a g/f

    Well what I meant was not so much that we couldn't help ourselves and make some mistake, or even what people may think about us. I just think that Christians should act as the Bible instructs us, and should be an example to others. Staying in the same room, though I'm sure we could avoid making...
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    I know it's out there, but... say you want to take a vacation with a g/f

    I know this might sound weird, but it's a legitimate question, I just don't know what to do with it. I met this girl a little while ago, and it turns out we're alarmingly similar in a lot of ways, one of which is taste in vacations and adventures. She's been skydiving, I've always wanted to...
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    The fine line between forgiveness and bitterness

    I have a hard time figuring out if I'm bitter about it or just doing what I can to distance myself. I think I'm done with the healing process, it took long enough to get over it. I've dated others and don't feel attached to her in any way anymore.