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Recent content by FoundWandering

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    Seeking truth to combat others' perceptions

    Trust me, as I trust in Him. I am NOT even remotely interested in getting back with my ex, let alone jumping into another relationship with anyone else. It's simply not happening. EVER again. I can't make myself go through that torture again, and I can't make myself trust another man ever...
  2. FoundWandering

    Hey y'all!

    Thank you
  3. FoundWandering

    Seeking truth to combat others' perceptions

    Thank you for that. It does help me to hear that maybe my survival message would do a lot of good to bring up in situations like these. Maybe that's why the Lord carried me through it, so I could use this message to guide others to His feet with the mission He gave me. I try hard to look at...
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    Seeking truth to combat others' perceptions

    I didn't want to have to write this account, but it looks like I have to, because I'm not quite sure if you understood the "heavily abusive" part. He beat me. Horrifically. The last straw I could stand was one day, I had gotten home from running errands (paying bills & grocery shopping for the...
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    Seeking truth to combat others' perceptions

    So, I'm divorced. He was heavily abusive and eventually I found out he cheated. Let's move on. I've made my way through the grieving process and throughout that process I prayed multiple times every single day to find clarity and relive myself of these emotions regarding my ex. Every time, I...
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    Worried about what everyone thinks

    It's perfectly normal to "miss" him in your grief. You spent so much time, love, and effort on him that your comfortable place is where you once were, but you are now grieving the loss of the fruits of all of that. That he even has someone new already lets you know two things: 1) he didn't...
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    Getting a book published

    I second that. If you bind in paperback, each book usually only costs you about $3.75(ish). You can test the market beforehand and only publish to Kindle E-readers at first, just to find out whether or not a full printing should even be worth it. Also, don't forget to send a copy of your...
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    Hey y'all!

    I am both new to CF and quite old, as I was once a member back when there were fancy avatars and such. This is a new account obviously, because my old brain can't remember my old login creds. I am hoping to find some local-ish people who think like me, or want to become friends. I don't have...