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Recent content by fmarc

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    A question for single Christian women

    Heart for Christ = love That being said, as a female, if I were to marry, of course I would keep taking care of myself for my husband, as attractiveness does matter (it just shouldn't be the focus).
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    Worst Reason You Got Broken Up With

    Yeah, it was a pretty lame excuse on his part. :confused2:
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    Best & Worst About Being Single

    Best: opportunity daily to devote more time cultivating a deeper relationship with God Worst: sometimes being single can be lonely, even though we have God. God is relational and I personally love being in a relationship
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    I'm his "backup girl" and I cut it off and now he

    All in all though, I'm definitely trying my best to cut ties with him. It is difficult because we do go to the same church. It is slightly more difficult for me because he recently brought a new girl he's seeing to church. I don't want to leave my church and the 30+ great relationships I have...
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    I'm his "backup girl" and I cut it off and now he

    And no, he was not "getting the milk for free." Living together was definitely the unChristian thing to do and that was definitely a huge part if the problem. He has family but grew up under severe abuse, causing him to move out at age 16. When he found out he had stage three cancer, his...
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    I'm his "backup girl" and I cut it off and now he

    I think you're correct! I say this because of some things he has said way back. Aw man, my username was not a joke but I think I get what you're saying! :/ I'm good with the truth. I'm trying to move on correctly, no matter how bad it hurts. Thank you!!!!
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    I'm his "backup girl" and I cut it off and now he

    Thank you!
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    Worst Reason You Got Broken Up With

    I wasn't "spiritual" enough
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    I'm his "backup girl" and I cut it off and now he

    It's been 11 months since we broke up. He was my first boyfriend, my first love. He pretty much helped me trust people (bad past). But now...I don't know. I guess it's just God and me, as it should be, with just a vision of him and maybe her at the corner of my eye. It's a really awkward...
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    I'm his "backup girl" and I cut it off and now he

    We have a long history. He ended up getting cancer 1.5 years into the relationship. I pretty much helped him in every way through that, as his whole family abandoned him during that time. He had to live with me, I took him to the hospital everyday, pushed him around in a wheelchair all the...
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    I'm his "backup girl" and I cut it off and now he

    We were engaged... You guys are right, I just need to dart the other way when I see him at church. That in itself is tough as is since he speaks every Sunday and our church is only 40 people.
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    I'm his "backup girl" and I cut it off and now he

    We were actually together for 4.5 years. Then we broke up. We go to the same church and when he finds it convenient, he just starts talking to me, telling me personal things in his life. He tries to come over my place, talk to my family, and then when he gets a new chick, which is easy for...
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    I'm his "backup girl" and I cut it off and now he

    ...wants to see me in person to discuss this. I tried cutting all ties with him for the fifth time over the phone but this time he wants to see me in person to discuss this. Am I really his "option" chick, now that he is seeing someone else for the second time? Why do guys do this? It is so...
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    Healing after a Christian breakup. Your story

    Thank you Darth_Bagel. The people that I have spoken to about this all say that same line, "You dodged a bullet." They all say I'll find someone better and so forth. I just don't ever want to be used again like this... I guess that's fear speaking. I will take your advice and try to find a...
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    Healing after a Christian breakup. Your story

    I'm sorry that happened. I hope you really are alright. We always have Hope! The whole being part Jew seems so ridiculous to me. God does work in ways that seem strange to us. I hope He provided you with more peace and joy. =]
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