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Recent content by FishButton

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    Either I'm insane or something is going on

    6 Classes away from a degree? What is stopping you from obtaining your degree and getting a job? Your husband has the upper hand because he knows you have no other options. If you make more options available to yourself you will no longer feel trapped. You say that God provides a way if it is...
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    What if your spouse wanted to do plural marriage?

    Did you tell him that you'd be taking a second husband? You should. Not to make light of your situation, I just can't comprehend the audacity of some people. I feel polygamy is a disgusting practice that reduces women to slaves and housekeepers rather than equal partners. The closest we'll...
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    Life is a mess...

    Your wife gave you another chance and you're still seeing your mistress. Do you have any shame? Do you know how your wife is going to feel if she finds out that she took you back and you didn't even bother to change? You don't deserve to have either of them. You've clearly got some issues with...
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    One last request for help

    Even with no children? My wife and I will not be having children but I think both of us would love to stay home while the other makes all the money. Both of us have well paying professional careers so we could afford it. I guess we could flip a coin? :D
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    I am only 24 and already cheated on my husband..help!

    There is actually a quick fix. Get rid of your computer. If you are truly addicted as you say that will be the only way to show your sincerity and regain the trust of your spouse.
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    Why doesn't my wife treat me like I'm the greatest guy who ever was?

    Are you the greatest guy that ever was? If you feel that it's the man's responsibility to provide for his family and the wife's responsibility to tend to the family then you both have equally challenging duties, why should she treat you any differently if she works equally as hard? If she does...
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    Tatoos are generally considered low class in men's eyes...

    My wifes tattoos remind me of our journey together and before she had them I thought she was the most beautiful woman I'd ever seen, I feel they have added to her natural beauty and are in no way, shape, or form "trashy" Did someone nominate you to speak on behalf of all men? No. Some men like...
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    People dating people who have herpes...

    I find it funny how terrified men are of herpes when the statistics for HPV are more jarring but since women are really the only ones affected by it men don't seem to care much. Herpes causes breakouts and pain but HPV causes cervical cancer. As a man, I'm actually more concerned about someone...
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    So is it cheating??

    ..Of course I'm not addicted to video games. I was being facetious How many of those men are really and truly pornography addicts and how many of them just don't want to stop. Perhaps they tell their wives that they want to stop when they really don't want to, and when their wives catch them...
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    So is it cheating??

    My wife does not accept my urge to play video games, she thinks that the time could be better spent doing something more productive. Yet, I play them anyway. It has a negative impact on our relationship and yet I still do it. Sometimes I play them when she is not home and I'm supposed to be...
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    So is it cheating??

    People are quick to label themselves "Pornography addicts" or say that their husbands are addicted to pornography around here. I was taken aback by this notion shortly after finding this board. A man that sometimes gets the urge to look at pictures of naked women and touch is hardly an...
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    Is Pegging a Sin? Can Christians in Marriage Enjoy It?

    My view may be unpopular here but I don't believe that enjoyment of anal penetration is wrong or immoral, especially when you are doing it with your spouse. The prostate is often called the male g-spot, and most men have been told that anything dealing with that region is homosexual in...