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Recent content by fireman1173005

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    Anger

    I had another big problem with anger that involved my wife last week and I have decided to seek help to try to save my marriage. I am seeing a Christian counselor next week and I am excited and hopeful that this will help!!! This counselor used to pastor and I know some pastors who have spoken...
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    Anger

    I might need to get away from caffeine, I drink alot of tea! I used to drink pop but one of the side effects of, Topamax which I take, is a wierd taste when you drink carbonated beverages. So I don't like anything carbonated. So I drink sweet tea like it's going out of style. May have to...
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    Divorced due to my illness

    I know I can't do it on my own but I don't expect God to just do it for me either! I know it has to be something I do with His help!
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    Anger

    I agree that I can't do it on my own, but with God anything is possible! I have learned to remove myself from certain situations to help with my anger, but sometimes I can have a great day and then just snap for no reason! It seems that usually it's over no big deal too. At the time I am...
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    Anger

    I was seeing a psychologist for awhile, that's how I figured out I had bipolar. I felt like we didn't get very far, just more of a I talk she listen session. I needed someone to help me and didn't feel like I got that. I see a psychiatrist now whom she recommended who prescribes my meds but...
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    Anger

    I have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder for about 3 years now and it seems to be getting worse. My doc is adjusting my meds to try to help but I have trouble keeping my anger under control. Anyone have this trouble and have any ideas for help? Brian
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    Divorced due to my illness

    Having trouble in my marriage right now because of it! Anger problems. My wife has threatened to leave me on a few occasions. I can't seem to get my anger under control. I take out mostly on loved ones.
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    Online Church

    I would also recommend LifeChurch.tv sound theological teaching and very practical. They show the messages 64 times per week online. Just click on the link then click on watch.
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    Need help with wifes cousin/employee

    Thanks for the responses, we are not bailing him out, just providing a job would let him out early.
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    Need help with wifes cousin/employee

    Ok need advice for something I have been praying about and still don't know what to do. My wife's cousin who is 22 came to live with us after getting out of jail several months ago. This was his 2nd time in jail, this time for forgery and theft, of course he told us he had learned his lesson...
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    Campus Ministry

    Looking for an idea for a weekly campus ministry for our local high school. Right now we are doing FISH Club. It stands for F-Focus I-Inspire S-Share H-Hook. Week one-students focus on who you feel God is calling you to invite on hook week. Week two-We have an adult come in who tries to...
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    No Love

    That is basically the only two choices that I can see too. She is trying her heart out, and I don't have the heart to tell her to just give up. Of course the Bible tells us not to divorce except for adultery, but in this case they got married for the wrong reasons in the first place. 2 wrongs...
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    No Love

    What would you say or recommend to a woman who is seeking help who's husband says he doesn't love her. They have been married for many years but got married because she became pregnant. Now he says he has been miserable for years and that he doesn't think he ever really loved her. He has...
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    question for baptists

    I agree with the no answer. There are actually several different kinds of Baptist Churches. I belong to a Southern Baptist Church. While most Baptist Churches are similar in beliefs some differ slightly. We started a Baptist church to reach young adults and some people wear shorts on Sunday...