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Recent content by FireLily

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    I want a boyfriend...

    Thanks :)
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    Dr. Owour who has prophesied Chile, Haiti, Katrina and others

    I didn't look at the video, just to let you know. But I want to let you know that no one, no human being, can CAUSE it to rain or open the heavens. He may be a prophet - there are a lot on Earth right now. But I do not believe that God gives powers to man to cause the rains to fall. What would...
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    too far...

    Actual vaginal-penis penetration, in my opinion, is going too far. I really think it depends on how you feel afterwards and your emotions with that person. If kissing them is too much for you, then don't. And if you can go to the point where you're "petting" each other and don't think it's too...
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    I want a boyfriend...

    Thanks! He and I (the friends with benefits) actually went out today. We DID NOT have sex. YAY. It's getting easier each time to say no to him - plus he didn't even ask to have sex this time. I told him last time that I didn't want to have sex with him because I knew he'd never commit to me. You...
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    I want a boyfriend...

    Thanks for your advice, it really made me think. I never thought being single as a time to be shaped into a more Godly woman.
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    I want a boyfriend...

    Thank you :)
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    Is it too soon?

    Well, having had a long distance relationship myself, I know how difficult that can be. Trust me, seeing the person and talking to them on IM/Skype/etc. are two completely different things. It's difficult - but you said that YOU have these feelings. How does he feel about you? Has he suggested...
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    I want a boyfriend...

    Well I don't live near any Evangelical/AG churches, so it might be hard. Although I do have a friend who invited me to Liquid Church, which is a Conservative/Evangelical church that IVCF (my school's intervarsity Christian fellowship) vans to. I think I'll drop her an e-mail. I know I should...
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    New journey.

    Hey :) I'm in the same boat you are, and I know how you feel 100%. Prayer helps, and having someone else pray for you helps too. I'll pray for you...will you pray for me?
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    I want a boyfriend...

    Hey. I'm going to keep this really simple. I'm a 19 year old undergrad sophomore. I really want a (Conservative Christian) boyfriend, but they seem SO HARD to come by. Also, I feel like I'm too shy to talk to guys myself. I'm loud and boisterous when I'm with my friends but quiet around guys...
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    Masturbation

    I don't think it's a sin. I think when you are thinking of what you want to do while masturbating is the real issue. If you're just doing it because it feels good, then I don't think it's a sin.
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    is there anyone out there?

    Sometimes I feel like I'll never find love or a man who shares my values...I know I'm only 19 but I feel like I'm loosing so much time when I know I'm really not. Does anyone else ever feel this way? :confused: :confused: :confused:
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    the low fertility rate in the United States

    That's really troubling to hear - plus I wanted to tell you I love that quote - it's on my facebook and myspace.
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    Question

    Yes, you're right about that. Many Conservatives think this way, but some (like myself) know that at the core the Bible teaches that God is the final judge of all things. Therefore we have no right to take on a Godship and say who is or is not going to Hell. Only God can judge you. Only God can...
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    Looking "alternative" and being in youth ministry

    Don't worry about what other people think of you - it is God's opinion that counts. And in the end, you'll probably draw in a lot of youth because they can relate. By NOT covering up your tattoos and piercings you'll gain their respect as a person of courage.