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Recent content by FIC/forever

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    This life is so hard!

    I have been suffering from chronic depression for the last year and have cut myself off from family and friends because I just find it soo hard to mix with people even though I feel so lonely. I have been in a mental health hospital three times over the past year because I felt suicidal and now...
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    Do you ever wish

    Thank you so much for your message it's just that I needed to know I wasn't alone in this. Not that I want anyone to have to endure what I go through every day but knowing someone else understands how I feel helps thank you for sharing
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    Do you ever wish

    Do you ever wish you could forget it all ever happened and just live a normal life without memories or flashbacks of it. That's how I feel!! I'm living a double life cause my family don't know anything about my past and it's so hard. I don't feel ready to tell them and maybe never will. Is there...
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    So alone

    Thank you HisLilyWhitePrincess for sharing it helps to know people understand. You are in my prayers.
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    Can't relive it anymore

    Thank you everyone for your encouragement and it's good to have people to share with. These are dark days for me :(
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    So alone

    Have you ever felt really lonely even though there are lots of people around you, I feel like that, sometimes I wonder where God is, will I ever feel right, will the thoughts in my head stop to allow me to live a normal life. God sometimes feels so far away yet I need Him He is the only one who...
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    Can't relive it anymore

    Thank you for these verses and I appreciate the support at this very difficult time. I have been suffering severe depression and it's good to be reminded of the hope I have in Christ
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    Can't relive it anymore

    Have you ever came to the point when you are so so tired living it over and over again. My brain is tired with the thoughts of where to go from here. I want to get councelling but it just seems like another chore! Yet I want it all to go away. I'm sorry I ever opened up and let it out, it's to...
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    My Pastor raped me

    Deleteriousnonsense I really don't feel I need to prove it happened because the Lord knows it did. I couldn't say at the time because I was protecting his wife and children and that's all I'm going to say about it. I told it on here for support from people who care and there are people on here...
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    struggling to survive

    I recently made up my mind to have counselling and was put in touch with a christian counsellor as I have had a lot of stuff coming to my memory lately and after a long spell of depression am finding it hard to pick myself up and all this stuff is racing around in my head and I dont know what to...
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    New problems and am in the pits

    I know how you feel and can empathise with you cause I feel like doing the same but its not what God wants us to do He wants us to bring all these problems to Him and I know this is not easy I find this so hard to do myself which is why I am seeking a christian counsellor to help me. God loves...
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    My Pastor raped me

    Thank you Goldenviolet this is a big step for me and to be honest I'm not looking forward to this counselling but deep down I know I really need to do this to move forward so I would appreciate your prayers along with others thank you for your support Fic/forever x
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    My Pastor raped me

    Thank you everyone for your encouragement and helpful verses I'm hoping that the councelling will help unfortunately no appointments available at present so please pray for me while I am waiting xx
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    My Pastor raped me

    No one knew I was his baby sitter and lived with him and his wife and children. I was at college and had no classes that day, his wife had left to take the children to school I was still in bed sleeping the first I knew was when he woke me as he climbed into my bed and he raped me his wife...
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    My Pastor raped me

    I have been having great difficulty coming to terms with my past I feel like I'm taking one step forward and two steps back all the time. I have decided after a long time to get some Christian councelling because 30 years ago my pastor raped me I was very niave at the time and I didn't realise...