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Recent content by fhl2014

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    How to get a Date worth Keeping - book

    Good points. More to ponder. Take care.
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    Praying for single non christian guys to come to the lord?

    My sister is telling me over and over that it may be Gods intention for me to date guys that I have chemistry with, and if they're not christians then don't stop seeing them like I keep doing as a rule, but instead stay in a relationship with them and pray for them to come to the lord. What do...
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    How to get a Date worth Keeping - book

    Hi Russinanorth, you make some good points. I am currently trying to find someone online as well as in person and everyday I'm deleting peoples messages who are outside of my age and faith requirements. They're the biggest two besides looks. If a guy is good looking, has some kind of chirstian...
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    i dont date him if he's not a christian- is this a bad idea?

    Question: you asked me why a man wouldn't want a submissive wife. ... I want to know why WOULD he? What's his motivation? Don't tell me its the best way to love and serve her. Of all the men I've heard harp on about being a woman's leader, I've never ever heard a man go on and on about how...
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    i dont date him if he's not a christian- is this a bad idea?

    I can't believe you just asked if a guy would choose between a smart talented and beautiful woman who knows that men and women lead each other at times and one who is simply submissive. If a man doesn't prefer the former I think something is wrong with him. But I do know of christian guys who...
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    i dont date him if he's not a christian- is this a bad idea?

    LinkH, why are you even going on and on and on and on in detail about all this? It's not the gospel. Guys with your mindset always seem to be able to prattle off perceived scriptures about 'roles of wives' better than they can the character of Jesus, and they certainly mention Him less. That...
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    i dont date him if he's not a christian- is this a bad idea?

    I'm so glad you mentioned how womens studies professors would describe feminists because I am in contact with several of them every week as I am at college and guess what I'm studying? Feminists, like anyone who is rightfully resisting widespread injustices, come in many different forms. Many...
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    i dont date him if he's not a christian- is this a bad idea?

    Yep, I was concerned by that specific comment as well. The fact that he won't 'lie awake at night wondering if she will leave him because she knows thats wrong and she also knows she has to forgive' is a problem. Some men (and women) need to lay awake at night knowing that if they are bad...
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    i dont date him if he's not a christian- is this a bad idea?

    You do not have more authority in life or marriage than your wife else when your wife meets God she wont need to say anything except 'dont talk to me talk to my husband about me, he had greater authority and therefore more responsibility for my actions both good and bad' and God would say 'ok.'...
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    i dont date him if he's not a christian- is this a bad idea?

    A feminist is simply someone who believes in what Jesus said sums up all the laws of all the prophets- love others as you would love yourself. Equal. No blocks to preaching or decision making or being a fully functioning adult who uses her brain heart and wisdom which sometimes includes teaching...
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    Why are so many threads here not about singleness?

    Aren't there random discussion areas for random topics?
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    i dont date him if he's not a christian- is this a bad idea?

    Also, I just read your message again and there's a number of things wrong with your theology. First of all you're saying that if I believe something will happen for me then it will. This is not a black and white promise in life though of course having faith helps. For example, many Christians...
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    Women revering their man?

    Fair enough. Those girls do sound rude. Do you offer a lot of intellectual advice without being asked? My dad is a very intelligent and knowledgeable man after working in museums for many years. He loves knowledge and discussion on many topics particularly about history or society.. however his...
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    Dad and I have anxiety- is it hereditary?

    This is a useful point thank you. I thought of something similar recently when watching a movie and a character told his friend to write down everything he's really afraid of deep down so when he was surfing huge waves he wouldnt panic in the water because he'd already come to terms with fear. I...