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Recent content by Feb212010

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    What song are you listening to right now #2

    Awesome song by an awesome band!
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    God wanted us apart..(please take time to read, not too long)

    dayhiker, the Robot is an epic dance move. Look it up on Youtube!
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    God wanted us apart..(please take time to read, not too long)

    Thanks you guys all for your support and suggestions. Is it possible Luther, that this break up is helping both of us grow closer to God, and each other at the same time? I mean, I feel so much better now that we haven't really communicated about each other for a few days, but instead...
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    Relationship issues...thanks guys

    Hey everybody, I really appreciate your thoughts and prayers. Means a lot. Thanks so much. -Zachery
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    God wanted us apart..(please take time to read, not too long)

    Sorry I keep posting. Were both leaving it up to God to lead us wherever now. I'm letting God control this one, us humans can't do all this alone. I appreciate all of this you guys, seriously. Even you Luther ;)
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    God wanted us apart..(please take time to read, not too long)

    bren, thank you, I also want to inform people that she does want to be with me. A lot of people want things. She doesn't want to break up. I care for her enough to know that she HAS to do what she HAS to do. She can't do what she WANTS to do. We have both accepted this. We both HAVE to find...
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    God wanted us apart..(please take time to read, not too long)

    "God just told me to go out and buy a new ferrari, a new computer, an X-Box 360 and a Playstation 3 without consulting my wife." Luther, are you saying the above quote isn't using God as a poor excuse to get away with something?
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    God wanted us apart..(please take time to read, not too long)

    gzt, thank you for your advice and words. I guess my beliefs are different from a lot of peoples on here (i.e Luther). Thanks again everybody.
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    God wanted us apart..(please take time to read, not too long)

    Obviously Luther, you may be right. But, I think your having a hard time accepting the fact that I also did mention I screwed up and didn't say that maybe God is pointing her in another direction? Do you disagree to that? That's what I've meant this whole time. And for you to say I'm gonna be...
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    God wanted us apart..(please take time to read, not too long)

    Luther, there is a difference between knowing God's sense of direction and abusing God by using him as a lame excuse to avoid the truth and face the problem. God is directing her somewhere else as of now, and I believe God does that. You are bringing in phony examples of things that are...
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    God wanted us apart..(please take time to read, not too long)

    I did ask her to tell me straight from the bottom of her heart of what she wanted, (while crying) she said she wanted to be with me. But she could hear God telling her to not be with me at this time, and that its her time to be single for a while; until God plans on either us getting back...
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    God wanted us apart..(please take time to read, not too long)

    iambren, I talked to her more tonight at her house. I sat down and asked her to tell me straight through that was it really God SPEAKING to her. She said that it was God speaking to her. I asked her how do you know that it was God speaking to you and not you just following your...
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    God wanted us apart..(please take time to read, not too long)

    I understand though. But, I believe that God can speak to you in different ways. That quote that you quoted from me was ignorance and arrogance on my part cause I was upset that it seems nobody can agree with me. I am having a hard time believing that this person I have known for years has all...
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    Relationship issues...thanks guys

    This isn't as important of a prayer request as a lot of the prayer requests on this forum. I understand. I just wanna ask you guys to please pray for my relationship with my girlfriend. We are bringing our relationship to an end to have us both singly get to know God better and then when the...
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    God wanted us apart..(please take time to read, not too long)

    How do I ask her that though? A very religious girl, and then I ask her if the devil himself was telling her were done?