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Recent content by fantasma

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    Whats the point of praying

    Short version answer: Prayer tunes your heart to the signal of His. Like a radio station that is getting interference has to be tuned to receive what the station is broadcasting. We must "tune in" to understand and have a relationship with Him.
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    I'm afraid I may have Cancer

    Still praying for you.
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    Lymphoma

    I was diagnosed with Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma exactly 1 month after our second child was born.It was had to go through the Chemo and Radiation that followed and many times all I could do to help around the house was to hold my baby daughter in my arms. I am glad to say that now I have been 6 years...
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    Cancer survivors come post at this one!!!

    Diagnosed with Non Hodgkin's Lymphoma in mid 2003 Went through 6 Chemo treatments and 1 month of radiation after 5 years been in the clear. Only major side effects tingling/nubness in fingers,some abnormality to liver,and I think I may have lost some of my mind (or maybe that is just age :))...
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    How long have u survived?

    Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma .......6 Years
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    I'm afraid I may have Cancer

    My mother passed away with complications to cancer.. and 7 years later I found myself diagnosed with cancer also....I understand how it plays with your head and tries to drag you into discouragement.I am now in my 6th year in remission. I will be praying for you. Be careful taking to heart...
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    FireProof

    My wife and I went and saw this the same day it came out! GREAT MOVIE. I Highly Recommend it .
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    Last movie you watched (7)

    Fly me to the moon (in 3D) If you liked bugs life this would follow that category,However I don't know if I was sitting to far back in the theater,or I was to tired or maybe it's time to have my vision checked.But I started to get a headache with the glasses on ?? My kids liked it.Anyway,Worth...
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    cutting teeth

    We've used an Ice cube chip wrapped in a wash cloth when a tething ring was not available & Tylenol . I know this is a hard stage to go through. Hang in there. p.s. I've heard that if one uses a lot of oragel it actually toughens the gum and makes it harder for the tooth to break through.But, I...
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    Do men....

    I'm new to this site.But,this is one of the places I go to since I have a 7yr old boy, 4 year old girl and a 1yr old baby girl. :)
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    I was cheated on..

    Being betrayed "cheated" by someone you trusted is a hard wound to heal from.And even after the wound heals you will still have a scar. But, God can use these scars to help mold us and equip us to help others further down the road of life. Be true to God in the trials and he will reward you...
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    Three Word Story

    worn out shoe
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    Three Word Story

    fear that the
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    How do you make them sleep?!?

    Routine Yes indeed. That was suggested to my wife and I from a close friend with 5 kids. We did not take it to heart till we had our 2nd. now we live by it .
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    Three Word Story

    and soon the