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Recent content by Fallimar

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    I need someone to help set me at ease

    I can't reply on here for fear of staring an argument, and as I've said before, that's the last thing I want. Suffice to say I don't believe that it's possible for there to be a god.
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    I need someone to help set me at ease

    I suppose I should have worded my post more clearly... I can see that everyone that has replied here means very well in their responses, but I'm just not a believer in Christ, God or anything related. I suppose the problem lies more in that every time I speak with a religious person, I feel as...
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    Anyone a costume designer/maker?

    Well, I don't know about other people, but if I had a picture of the finished desired product I could certainly try! All my friends would be pretty surprised though!
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    I need someone to help set me at ease

    Thankyou for replying, Trish, I really do appreciate it :) I'm very glad that you are willing to share your joy, but I cannot take joy that is derived from scripture. That was the problem with the people I have spoken to before, all they do is point me to the bible. Books are written by people...
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    Which do you prefer? (2)

    numb3rs. Noodles or Pasta?
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    I need someone to help set me at ease

    Hello people, My name is Sophia, and I'm trying to recover from seething frustration and hatred. In all seriousness, I simply need to be reassured. I am a non-christian, first and foremost. This post is not about my beliefs, or the difference between mine and others. It is simply that I am...
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    What is a Proper Response to the Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras?

    Ideas? Darling, I don't watch TV more than the simpsons and some British comedies. I base my ideas off what I've seen, heard, read in peoples' journals, READ IN ISLAMIC MESSAGE BOARDS, and actually read in translations of the Q'ran. So please don't assume that I'm an uneducated idealist, which...
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    What is a Proper Response to the Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras?

    Islam isn't a problem at all. Fundamentalists are the problem. That goes for all religions.
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    What is a Proper Response to the Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras?

    Izero, the major flaw in the argument you have there that kinda voids the rest of it is that God created man and woman. Only Christians and members of most other religions say that. And to correct an earlier point of yours, Atheism is -not- anti-Christian, anti-God, anti-Muslim, etc. It's not...
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    What is a Proper Response to the Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras?

    I wouldn't say we encourage them to be violent, quite the opposite. I don't think you should hide anything from kids, but there's an age for everything. I'm against small children seeing openly sexual behaviour because they won't understand it and their behaviour would most likely suffer in that...
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    What is a Proper Response to the Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras?

    It's sad that you had to go through that. As much as I disagree with and am offended by many of the views that a lot of Christians hold, I'd never go so far as to accusing them of being bad people in general. Just goes to show that there -are- bad people who come from all walks of life.
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    What is a Proper Response to the Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras?

    I disagree with your statement that the mardi gras promotes no good values. IT promotes the values of openness, acceptance, love between people of both sexes and not just same-sex partnerships, and above all a sense of fun! Those are all -major- good qualities in my book. Also, you say that...
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    Which do you prefer? (2)

    blueberries! Cats or dogs?
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    Word Association. (6)

    oysters
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    Greetings to Christians from a nonbeliever

    Thanks to you as well! I'm already finding it a nice place, I've been on for several hours and (contrary to most other Christian sites I've visited) haven't found anything to turn me off. ... That sounded horrible, but you might know what I mean o..o