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Recent content by ezra321

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    Really needing advice

    I asked for advice on what to do next, and how to improve. That I obviously do not have the answer, hence the post asking "what should I do." My question was not "what did I do wrong." I do have the answer for that, clearly, hence the entire paragraph about it. If you haven't read the thread, I...
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    Really needing advice

    Did I ever once say that I thought the consequences would magically disappear? I explicitly said that I know I will have to live with this mistake, and that I've damaged relationships. I also said that I DON'T expect it to magically be fixed. You repeating back to me the mistake that I myself...
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    Really needing advice

    I am very aware that there are consequences, I am not naive. But one of the wonderful things about our god is that he gives us the chance to turn our burdens over to him and to be renewed. Please do not take me for a fool. I know I messed up, and that it is something I will have to live with...
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    Really needing advice

    I agree I am not married in the eyes of God. He told us to follow the laws of men if they do not interfere with his word, and I know I need a true, lawful marriage. Thank you though for the concern.
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    Really needing advice

    Thank you for those of you who had helpful advice. I'm going to sum up my position for those who misunderstood. I do know what I'm doing is wrong, and I was not looking for someone to magically fix it for me. However, it is helpful to have advice from those who have been there and understood how...
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    Really needing advice

    That would be fine, but I am only 19. I'm not against getting married young, but I know a lot of growing and maturing can happen for us as individuals in the next few years, and I want to be sure we can do so through God. I believe the only successful marriage is one where God is put first and...
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    Really needing advice

    I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We were both raised christians, we grew up together and our families are very close and go to church together. My boyfriend is now in the marines, and it is hard for him to practice his faith like he should as he doesn't have the greatest...