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Recent content by Everly

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    no intimacy, young married couple...

    Hi all, First and foremost, thank you for taking the time to respond to this thread. I feel supported and less alone with my problem. Something I have realized after reading faroukfarouk's comment is that my husband and are no longer pray together. I think it never came in his mind to do...
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    I'm back again... As expected, still no sex. It is hard to find a marriage counselor because we just moved in a new city and we have been attending a baptist church for a few weeks. My only source of hope right now is through prayers. But I'm now feeling guilty about always praying for the...
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    Thank you for your insight. Indeed, I believed it is a combinaison of seeing sex as sinful and also me not meeting his "standards" anymore unfortunately. I'll pray about the passage you gave me and ask God to guide me through the conversation. Also, will look into that book you suggested
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    He isn't taking any medications... I usually sleeps the same time as him at around 11pm and he falls asleep right away and in the morning. I can walk in the bathroom without him caring or not when he showers, he doesn't mind it... I may have seen some of his underwear covered with a bit of...
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    When I used to exercice a lot, we could do it 2-3 per week (out of the 3 times, once he would initiate). When we would have sex, most of the time he likes to skip the foreplay... When I found that I was expecting he didn't want to touch me anymore. He was afraid I could have a miscarriage or...
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    no intimacy, young married couple...

    Outside of our sex life, my husband is a caring person and a wonderful father. He works so hard to take care of the family. I am 100% of his fidelity because he doesn't hide from me about anything. Communication is there, I know his different social media accounts and he knows mine but we don't...
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    It is actually a weight issue for my husband, he always states to like a slim and athletic type. I'm currently at 110 pounds for 5 ft 2. Before I got pregnant, I used to run 45 min every morning because I started to have the pressure to stay fit for him (100 pounds back then). But now I'm...
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    no intimacy, young married couple...

    Hi there, I'm Laetitia and I'm new to this forum. I apologize in advance for my english as it is not my native language. I'm coming here to seek some advice because maybe I will find someone who can relates or give me some advice. I'm 27 and got married in 2013. Mother of a 18 months old boy...