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Recent content by Eveningfirelight

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    I have kissed dating goodbye!

    I so agree with this. As a women it's very hard to find men who still believe in old fashioned values from times past. I've always said I was born in the wrong era. Though so many women no longer want the chivalry from men, hence, men quit being chivalrous to us.
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    Star Wars OR Star Trek?

    I like both Star Wars and Star Trek. I play Star Wars The Old Republic and really enjoy it but I have to say as far as the movies/tv I prefer Star Trek the next generation. I just liked the characters and plots better then the other Star Trek shows or Star Wars. I also think it doesn't hurt that...
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    Not new but just introducing myself

    Ive been on CF for a few years off and on. Though I don't think I have introduced myself yet. I'm 44 year old female. Divorced with one child. Just trying to move forward and hopefully have the life I've always wanted one day. :)
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    Getting to Know Each Other (2)

    Hi all :) I'm not new to CF but I haven't been on in a long time. I believe when I was on last I was just separated but now I've been divorced for a year. Now trying to figure out what I want to do with the rest of my life.
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    Anyone Going to Play Archeage?

    I just saw this post and even though its late I thought I would reply. Yes, I play and it's nice to see another mature gamer. The majority are kids or much younger then myself anyway. Do you still play? I know the game had some problems at launch but it's worked out for me. I don't play as...
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    dating sites?

    Yes, I know what you mean. It's hard on those sites. I did the free part of eharmony and received like 5 matches but you have to pay to get any info. I would have considered paying had I been given a bit more matches to choose from. I also joined christian mingle. Well, the free part so far. It...
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    Singles ~ Welcomes/Goodbyes (3)

    :)Hello, not new to the forum but new to this board as I was just recently divorced. My ex asked me for a divorce so he could go find a women he liked better apparently. The worst is he didn't seem to care much about leaving our daughter either. But we are trying to settle in to our new...
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    Article "Met Online? You May Be More Likely to Split"

    I can't resist replying to this. I'm a perfect example of this article---twice. I have been married and divorced twice to men I met online. Well, one was before the Internet was big so it was a penpal add in a magazine the first time. There is no way you can get to know a person well enough...
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    Sooo whose hitting up WildStar?!

    Hi, I am. Yeah, i know you don't see many women gamers my age but I enjoy mmo's. I bought the head start thingy and loving it so far. I'm only on level 8 because it's a busy time for me right now. Haven't been able to get on as much as I would have liked. I'm not used to the combat style so it...
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    Anyone had this experience?

    Sorry it has taken me so long to get back to this thread. Been having a lot going on in life. I checked for a few days to see if anyone was going to reply but when no one replied I thought maybe I really shouldn't talk about things like that here. Thanks for all your replies and I am working...
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    Once Upon a Time

    Yeah, can't wait. Maybe Regina will work well with the others to find Henry.
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    Anyone had this experience?

    I am about to be divorced for a second time. First husband addicted to Internet porn and other women. My present husband left me so he could have his freedom to date other woman. I have never had much luck with men. I am thinking there are no good men left like in my father and grandfather's...
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