• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
  • We hope the site problems here are now solved, however, if you still have any issues, please start a ticket in Contact Us

Recent content by eric246

  1. E

    Yeah Im really lost in sin

    Hey there! Although I can't really give much advice on the marriage aspect, but I too have problems with cybersex. If you want to chat about it, pm me, and I'd be glad to talk to you!
  2. E

    Cyber Sex Problem

    Hello. I am writing again because I am still in a fight with this problem. I was wondering if someone active wanted to volunteer as a person I could PM or IM once a day, just to tell that I hadn't gone in a chat-room. I feel like having that would give me the extra boost I needed to get past...
  3. E

    Cyber Sex Problem

    Thanks for both of you responding. I am Christian, I believe that Jesus died for me and resurrected to take away my sins, and always will believe that. I pray for him to forgive me for my sins, but I feel like I'm not as good a Christian that I could be. I feel like in certain areas of life...
  4. E

    Cyber Sex Problem

    Bumping this since I wrote it a while ago, but after writing it never really committed to quitting, so I'm stuck with the same problems today.
  5. E

    The keys to a succesfull and healthy relationship

    Thanks for replying. Yes, I definitely agree that selflessness is a big part of marriage, if not the biggest part. I think when you agree to get married, you are saying "I care more about my spouse than I do about myself, and would do anything for them", and it part, hope that they do the same...
  6. E

    The keys to a succesfull and healthy relationship

    I am an avid fan of psychology and sociology, and although I am about to be 21 (still young), I have been intrigued by couples, dating, and relationships for a while now. I did a lot of research and looked at cases of happy couples, unhappy couples, and couples that might think they are happy...
  7. E

    Not sure how to proceed. (long, detailed)

    It's definitely not normal for this to be happening. I think you should talk to him about his anger, and see if you can get him to take an anger management class or get therapy. Arguments between couples that are over little things usually don't turn into physical altercations. When they do, it...
  8. E

    Single sucks...

    Confidence is something you should at least try to show when talking to a girl. Confidence is attractive because it shows you know who you are, and you are going after what you want in life. Another thing you say is, "I don't have anything to say". As long as you make observations and ask...
  9. E

    To all the ladies praying for a husband

    I would agree with you. I think society always says guys should ask out girls, but what difference does it make as long as you find your life partner? I don't mind having to ask out girls, but if a girl I like actually came up to me, I wouldn't mind that either. I also think that if the two will...
  10. E

    Approaching Someone You Like

    Yeah, I know I eventually just have to do it. Not sure if you got my point completely, but saying things like "That looks nice on you" or "What book is that" are just conversation starters to get into a more detailed conversation, eventually seeing if you like them or not. For example, if you...
  11. E

    Approaching Someone You Like

    I'm 20, and I've been a shy person almost my entire life. This changed recently when I started getting into film-making and I would do videos where I interviewed random people on the street. I would have never been able to do that in previous years, but I've raised my self-esteem a lot recently...
  12. E

    Do you think Beautiful or attractive people have it easy

    I read somewhere that guys put more emphasis on physical attractiveness than girls do, but guy's brains were made so they are more visually stimulated. Having said that, I think beautiful girls have it easier. There are below average guys that get dates with cute girls because they show...
  13. E

    What do i do - college is a nightmare

    I'm almost in the same situation, but I feel that college will not help me with the careers I want. I want to be either and IT person/something with technology, or a film maker. Making videos is something I'm good at, and people enjoy me videos, so I feel like it can really work out for me. Even...
  14. E

    Cyber Sex Problem

    Hello. I'm 20 years old and been Christian pretty much my entire life. I lived my whole life being the 'nice' person people always like, saying things like "You're such a good kid", which I would hear growing up. The majority of people I know, friends and family, deal with stress usually in a...
  15. E

    Am I being "shallow"?

    Don't force something that isn't there! You need to think long term too. There are plenty of fish in the sea, don't settle for one person because he says "reasons of flesh". Imagine being married to him for the rest of your life, waking up every day and not feeling a connection, wondering why...