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Recent content by englishsunset

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    This has been a huge help for me!

    A long time ago I was in a prayer meeting and an older brother began naming everything he was thankful for. It was a bit weird at first, he was naming items such as his shoes, his pen, his chair, the air, sense of smell. He went on for a while and it hit me that all those bad thoughts just had...
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    Someone help me....

    To me, it's good you can write these things. Funny, I have been on the receiving end of an ex-wife of 29 years who shows all the symptoms of BPD, but never would seek help. All my life I have been a student of life. You cannot imagine how many various stages I've been in. I also have eight...
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    Add Adhd

    Some of my children have had this label nearly placed on them, but not quite. Most of my family, there are 8 children, have taken the "test" from a famous doctor in CT, I also took it. We have had experience with ritalin, adderal and a few natural remedies. In the end, nearly all of this ADD...
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    The sun also rises

    Nice music, very calming. BPD is not the easiest disorder to explain. It is a clinical diagnoses that takes on many forms. some of the symptoms are: an almost total inability to see one's faults flying into rages for seemingly insignificant causes. having an inexhaustible supply of excuses and...
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    The sun also rises

    I've was married to a woman with borderline personality disorder for 29 years and finally, had to divorce her and take the children. It has been an amazing journey. One by one, each of our 8 children has had to face the demons of depression and this totally weird BP disorder. It takes a...
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    webpage about depression and stress

    Hello, I've been a Christian for many years, from flower child to commune member to ultra-conservative non-denominational member of a Norwegian church to where I am now. I am very happy and amazed at how many things have happened to me. One thing for sure, Jesus died to take away our sins, not...