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Recent content by ::.Emerald.::

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    html help

    I don't know that you can do that with DIV tags- what you are wanting to do, is load two browser pages into one- which is the purpose of frames.. the DIV tags normally do just htat, they divide the webpage into sections, but still the same page.. I would definately look into I Frames.. I saw y...
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    My computer shuts down every five minutes!

    Ohhhhh I had that one too.. it was awful! Have you upgraded your virus protection as well?
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    Help please?

    Just wanted to update you all.. I havenot been around much the last week since I have been working really hard on some web sites I am building for some extra holiday money.. but things are ok.. I have been working on myself more lately which is a good thing.. my hubby sent me a letter which was...
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    Help please?

    Thank you all.. The past week has been interesting.. I started loosing major clumps of hair I have been so stressed! I have been so stressed out wondering what to do, how to feel, Gods will in all of this.. I spent the last seriously meditating on the word, and praying.. What I got from this...
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    Which is better XP or windows 98?

    I just wanted to say that yes, I would go with the XP for the reason mentioned earlier that Microsoft does not support it. I have an automatic updater running with my XP so that whenever Microsoft comes out with updates or patches, I will know about it and can install them to keep my system...
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    being a submissive wife?

    I agree with what has been said and would like to add that submission is not a superior ruling the inferior situation, it is a relationship. Just as the woman submits herself to her husband, he is to submit himself to the Lord. The man does not look at God as his mega boss who will tell him...
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    Help please?

    Things are ok right now.. I have been working on homeschooling my son, which has been a challenge. he is only 5, and the stress of our move, dad at war, it was just too much to add school to it. He was having very bad fits at school. I took him out last week, and have been praying over him...
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    The Gift Game

    When my husband and I had been married for I think 4 years- I had run out of tools to buy him..lol so I needed to come up with something else. I made arrangements to go to Dallas (we lived in san antonio at the time) and I booked us a very nice hotel and also got tickets to a pro baseball game...
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    being a submissive wife?

    There is a ministry that I worked with for about 3 years, Shammah Ministries. Both the husband and wife are ordained, and have wonderful self publications on many subjects. (Covenant is my FAVE) But, she wrote a book called "The Woman God Designed" and it is outstanding- she talks about her...
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    Help please?

    Your responses have made a lot of sense.. I suppose looking back he always acted interested in me so I never knew what was going on.. but this time, after this last affair he finally admitted it fully.. I gave him the chance to leave right there.. I told him, "if you love this woman, because...
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    Help please?

    Honestly, all I can do at this time IS pray. There are no actions for me to take while I sit safely here and my husband gets shot at. I have one year to live this way- I am already in counselling, though with a non Church related entity since we have none here- and I am reading the Word and...
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    Romantic gift?

    One thing my husband did when we first got married.. I came home and our song was playing.. there was a piece of paper on the table with a riddle as to where to find the next piece of paper, but on each one he wrote something he loved about me.. simple things- for example~ I have very small...
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    Help please?

    I certainly do not want to be deceptive.. I could not ask him to be honest while I am not offering the same.. I have a feeling this deployment is going to change a lot, and that answers will come when he returns.. soldiers have a lot of time to think when they are out there, and so do the...
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    Help please?

    Thank you for your responses. I did read your thread- it is totally amazing and I am so very happy for you! I guess the problem I have, is that I know that he wants me. He never stopped being attentive to me.. he even slept with me and the other woman both in one day.. I never knew when he...
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    Help please?

    I hate that this has to be my introductory post, but at this point, I need the help.. I have been married for 9 years. My husband has cheated on my 3 times at least.. his family and I both agree there were more times he was unfaithful, but he refuses to admit it. He has done the porn...