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Recent content by Ellorienne

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    Dealing with finances and resentment.

    Hi Jane, We are kind of in the middle on his hers and ours. I guess there is a bit of his and mine. Because I have no allowance from his pay for things I want or need, then I suppose that is why. Whatever is left after paying bills is his. I use a very small amount from the family supplement...
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    Dealing with finances and resentment.

    Thanks Emmy. We have some family counselling with Anglicare lined up for January to help the other problems. The finance ones are more tricky. I want to do the right thing without being selfish. I want to rely on God but still be responsible with what he provides in my life. Thank you for your...
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    Dealing with finances and resentment.

    First things first, hi I am Jenny and I am a Christian, married to a non Christian, and we have been together for 11 years. I am having difficulty with resenting my husband for financial irresponsibility. I stay at home with the children, and am happy with my role. He would prefer I work later...