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Recent content by elite_lady

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    Frustrated (No intimacy)

    take her out on the town to celebrate her new degree... but don't try to have sex with her (although i know you may want to). she's probably been attending school with a lot of younger women, further downing her self-confidence...
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    Frustrated (No intimacy)

    What is the rest of your marriage like? Do you have children? Are you equally educated? Has the pursuit of the degree taken away her energy? Does she also hold a job outside the home? If so, your wife may be suffering from something called the hurried woman syndrome... Depending on age and...
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    Single men being friends with married women??

    I am a married person. Opposite sex friends are great to have, but when you're married, they pose a danger to the natural balance between husband and wife... all you need to say is "my single opposite-sex friend said..." and then you'll see just how well your spouse really likes the...
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    Single men being friends with married women??

    also, you wouldn't go for advice on fixing your water pipes from an electrician, would you? but i frequently hear of people who seek out their unmarried friends for advice in improving/repairing/saving their marriages... i would much rather talk to someone who's really been in the trenches...
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    Single men being friends with married women??

    I think the basic danger in opposite sex friendships between marrieds and unmarrieds is that the single friend can offer the married one support, comfort and advice as one who has never been married. when one is dealing with the day-to-day struggle of keeping it all together, the friend is...
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    Lack Of Quality Time

    This may seem slightly off-topic at first, but please bear with me. Time for intimacy and affection in a marriage is often hard to come by, especially when you're living life together in the Lord. My husband also works long hours and is often given to acts of charity which diminish our...
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    Single men being friends with married women??

    My husband and I both have close friends of the opposite sex. However, I find myself uncomfortable with his friend because she sent him some suggestive pictures of herself during our engagement... (she didn't know about the engagement, so I wonder of the intensity of the friendship when our...