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Recent content by EIChief

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    Make- over for self esteem

    I didnt say that it was easy...In fact, I said that for some it was a long process, and indeed some never attain it.
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    Worried and confused

    I have no experience with this issue, but it seems that a doctor could clear him of any "known" viruses that could be damaging to your health. Then once that is done you could have some peace going forward in your relationship.
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    Make- over for self esteem

    Temporary self esteem boosts can be gained by a new wardrobe or hair style, but these things do not last. True self esteem comes from inside, knowing who you are, and being comfortable with yourself. These things are not developed by buying a new shirt, indeed sometimes it takes people time...
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    Got Fired due to my ADD!

    This brings to light a few different issues First I would like to say that those with ADD do have trouble keeping a job, but that is because of the effects caused by it and not simply having a diagnoses. If you have the ADD under control through medication or have found alternative methods of...
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    Struggling yet again...

    Thanks to everyone who offered other alternative methods for cutting to release the feelings. This is absolutely one of the best ways to conquer the addiction, as you move from self harm to a harmless activity such as screaming etc... With proper counseling you can then find a method by which...
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    homosexual friend

    This is not a good situation but all to common I am afraid. When a person finds themselves struggling with the issue of their sexuality the last thing they need is to be ostricized or told it is rubbish and ignored. This will eventually lead them to homosexuality because it is in that...
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    Struggling yet again...

    Hey Nodda...Let me say that Steff and the rest of our team has you in our prayers...We all know you can pull through, 26 days is a great accomplishment for anyone who is trying to overcome an addiction or disorder whether it is cutting, smoking, drugs, or even over eating. If you could find...
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    Help I think I'm suffocating

    I understand what you are going through because I felt much like you did after I had been in for a year. I was 3,000 miles away from my family and my father died. A hard thing to deal with when you are 19. However, when things get tough, running away sometimes robs us of the blessings that...
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    Am I a fake?

    Ephesians 2:8-9 Thanks be to God that we are justified by Grace through our faith and can't lose what we did not earn
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    Is this normal

    I would seek some counseling on this. There is a line drawn between simple love and caring for another person, and a constant need for affirmation and confirmation. This could cause problems in your marriage if the phone call or just being with your spouse is no longer enough and constant...
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    Am I a fake?

    All good comments here. Jesus is referring to those who do things in the name of the Lord but have different motivations other then wanting to serve, and look for different outcomes other then "To God be the Glory". Having doubts is common to most of us along our spiritual journey, and has...
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    Need Help

    If you feel convicted over what you did then take it to God because that is between you and him. As for this material you are viewing, be careful in participating on some of those topics unless your faith is very strong. Those that participate in evil can overcome weaker Christians very...
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    Who exactly is the base of the Democrats?

    That is silly, because it doesn't, just ask Bob Casey and Heath Shuler....:) It is just more common to find pro-choice positions as part of a more liberal ideology for obvious reasons
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    Who exactly is the base of the Democrats?

    So you think that if the tables were turned and Lieberman was anti-war and Lamont was pro-war, and Lamont won the primary, that they would have not have encouraged Lieberman to run as an independant to get back into Congress? I think you would have heard something like "Anyone can run for any...
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    Who exactly is the base of the Democrats?

    Conjecture all the way around. You have no more eveidence then I. The Democratic Leadership was not asking Lieberman to step down because Lamont won the primary. They were asking him to step down because they wanted Lamont to win the election and knew there was no chance if Lieberman ran as...