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Recent content by Easyk

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    Go back to maiden name after divorce?

    go back to your maiden name. clean break and no reminder regarding your last name..
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    Topless/Nude Beach?

    go read genesis again please, and then the bible. nude should only be in the bedroom between husband and wife.
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    Can Men and Women be friends?

    danger, danger!! men should not be friends with women and visa versa. its fine being friendly when wife and here friends are around. other than that no, as it opens the door for temptation.
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    Period of Celibacy?

    not a bad situation and not a bad idea.. dont make it too long tho.. 30 days should be more than enough.. and begin to read and study together Freedom from habitual sin: Overeating, Pornography, Smoking, Drinking is a good site for him to do the course.
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    Is it unreasonable to want to know the details surrounding cheating?

    Deny a spouse sex long enough, have it once a month or fortnight long enough and the spouse is not happy and would like it to increase a little and u say no.. Guess what . Temptation will come a knocking and someone will provide what you don't, it's still wrong and a sin to cheat... But let's...
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    Period of Celibacy?

    Yeah he needs to stop the porn there was a site or his.. I think what that person meant all men are sex addicts is simple we love sex, we love the touch and taking lots of photos with our eyes yo combat lust.. I mow if my sex desire is for filled I simply don't look at women, even if they are...
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    He gets angry too easily.

    Men and women respond differently.. Often simply end your texts in love you smiley can work, it will settle but he shouldnt get angry at you.. Sometimes that's guilt doing that...
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    Restoring Intimacy

    Yes he can, read the five language , intended for pleasure and so e other books.. Any man can learn to be intamate wit his wife. The thing is if he found your on buttons, tada different stuff. Maybe find a way to say that, or counseling... As soon as he finds them buttons very different.. And...
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    EX is verbally damaging kids. what to do

    Hmm don't give up on your kids, keep documenting and use the cps. And let your son know if she 'kicks him out' he should walk out and revers call the cps agent and then go to your place.. Or you pick him up. Tough dude, real tough.
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    my draft divorce petition has come

    Wait it out, or send a new partition to him is what I would do. U don't want that on your record ever...
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    Wife addicted to social media......

    Well it's true asburges, the things holding u back can be overcome.. It takes time and lots of patiences....my question was.. Does she understand this is being a big issue, for you and things take time.. For me learning another tongue, no thanks I know three already and it's polite to not speak...
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    Wife addicted to social media......

    Not to mention everyone has forgotten the asburges (sp) syndrome, it plays a big part in ins life.. I know I have a child who has a touch of it, it's big and you need to adjust your life around that or bad/interesting things happen. Does she understand at all what this syndrome actually means...
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    I feel like a ping pong ball- Advice and prayers needed

    Oh and the PTSD counselr must be male, sorry but well we are all human...
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    I feel like a ping pong ball- Advice and prayers needed

    Well true, if he has PTSD and is a Christian he is failing a basic scripture.. Husbands love your wife as Christ loves the church.. Fail right there.. Sometimes starting small is good, he should find a Christian counseler who can help him thru his PTSD.. And couple counseling so you can learn...