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Recent content by eaglemustfly

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    Doubting marriage but love my girlfriend

    Check Your Readiness For Marriage Unexpected situation will arise no matter how thorough you planned. Flexibility is important in a marriage. Take this as an opportunity to grow and walk towards a place you have never thought of before. Is now the right time? God never chooses whom you shall...
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    What distinguishes real love for someone?

    You are a true single if you feel whole and comfortable with yourself alone. You have a healthy self-esteem, and not hating yourself. If you do not learn to love yourself, how then can you love others. And how can others love you.
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    Relationship Advice:I sin often when I think about my boyfriend,is it best to end it?

    • "I know we should break up, but I do not want to break his heart." Keeping an unbeliever in his sin is more damaging in the long term, than breaking up with him now. This is one of the excuses that Christians make, to avoid obeying God. You need to know that when God made that standard, it...
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    What Does the Bible Say About Sleeping in the Same Bed Before Marriage?

    Sharing a bed should only be done exclusively with your husband or wife. It is too intimate.
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    I want to Abstain, my Fiance does not.

    Christians have many excuses, to avoid this condition that God has set up for their own good: • "I know that self-control is important. But is it wrong to prove that we love each other?" Someone who really loves you will guard and respect you. • "I know we should break up, but I do not want...
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    Why don't men wear engagement rings?

    IMO engagement rings cannot guarantee that he will be faithful. You really need to know him deep enough. How good is his character.
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    Biblically speaking, when are two people considered married?

    Consider marriage as a legal institute. It is after that marriage is legal, then you can have sex. Engagement time is for preparing the practical stuff for life after marriage. Such as where to live, should both of you work or just one of you, etc. Not the best time to have sex. It will cause...
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    Guus advice pref on long term relationship

    Love is not enough to sustain marriage life. Life needs money. If your finance cannot even provide for you as a single, you better do not get married. Especially when that marriage soon expands into a family with kids. Which usually comes unplanned. successful-christians.com --> the right time
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    Why don't men wear engagement rings?

    "After being engaged, you should be exclusive and not date other people. Your single life is over." Quoted from successful-christians.com pear shaped rings IMO, wearing engagement rings or not does not matter so much. Most importantly, his heart stays faithful to you. God bless you all :)
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    Biblically speaking, when are two people considered married?

    Hi all In my opinion, sex should be done after you are legally married. Marriage itself should be considered as an institution, to be respected. It is the strongest foundation against unfaithfulness and affair. Sex before marriage will give you "trust" problems after marriage. If you can...
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    Relationship Question!

    Hi NR90 Have you started doing what the Words say? At least 2 or 3 simple things, like doing good to others, giving and not expecting any return, praying for someone else even though he might not know it. When you are intimate with someone, you surely know what he likes or don't like. It is...