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Recent content by dvm3

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    Can this relationship ever work?

    Just to update, we ended the relationship. She told me the "I realized I'm not ready for a relationship" story and I basically agreed with her. It's tough but probably better that it ends now than being worse in the future. We talked about how we should stay friends and I told her she should...
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    Can this relationship ever work?

    Thanks everyone for the support. I have a lot to think about. Right now I'm realizing her coming to Christ is the most important thing. Like I said earlier, she's was very close to doing that. She's visiting family out-of-state for a couple weeks so the time apart will be good I think. I...
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    Can this relationship ever work?

    Thanks for all the comments and suggestions so far. It definitely helps.
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    Can this relationship ever work?

    A couple days ago my girlfriend of 2 months admitted she cheated on me about a week ago with her ex. Needless to say, I'm devastated. Our relationship has been getting stronger everyday so I'd never imagine something like this happening. I'm a Christian who's saving himself for marriage and she...