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Recent content by Dunlora

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    One more question

    From the perspective of someone with BPD: if the person with BPD suddenly turns on a friend or mentor, what is the person with BPD thinking/feeling towards that other person? If the BPD person then attempts to reconnect but the bpd's treatment towards the other person isn't the same, e.g...
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    advise about BPD relationship

    I have a friend who is an adult and works with kids. One kid shows the tendencies of borderline PD and narcissistic PD and for several months, developed an attachment towards my friend, the mentor. Suddenly, out of no where, the kid turned on my friend and told her to "get lost" in so many...